I'm an attractive, open minded, fun, smart woman..Im also married, bi-sexual and soft swing a bit with hubby, (may full swap w/ongoing friends only).. so if your a cpl reading this, please feel free to send a message.. My fantasy is all my own tho, with hubby being aware of it.. I'm not a submissive natured perality, but have an unfulfilled fantasy that I'm truly looking to come to life.. Needing an attractive, open minded, patient, mature, imaginative and poss. a Dom type male to help.. This is not the fantasy that you might think it is just because you see the word DOM. So dont just assume..I am NOT wanting a Dom male to hurt me, humiliate me, or do whatever he wants..I am looking for the mental aspect of it, and do want to be pushed a bit out of my comfort zone.. Importantly, I will not give details of the fantasy just because you ask. I will give out more info. when I deem it necessary, and think there is a true rea to share it.. Thank you for reading this and again, attractive "real" cpls, feel free to say hi as well.. GUESS FEW THINGS NEED CLEARED UP** Yes, I am married (over 20yrs) and only have a single profile because of my fantasy being for me. Hubby does know its a single profile. Need to make it clear, I dont usually play alone since we're swingers. This is just an exploration l have wanted to take for some time. Swinging is what I really love to do, first and foremost..We do enjoy soft swinging, but will full swap with compatible ppl that we have continuous ongoing thing with. We enjoy playing together, and nothing is a secret from each other. We feed off each other, so no point in leaving anyone out of the fun. I am the BI one, but doesnt have to be a must for other females. I can control myself if needed.. maybe..lol..We are fun, open, and lay back. Our time can be limited, so PLEASE, no fakes. Very much into flirting, talking and just being comfortable. I am not a shy perality at all, and love meeting ppl, Hubby is not shy either, but takes a gentleman approach to this. I hope this answers some questions I keep getting asked about the single profile reaing. Thanks... ok now.. back to my fantasy part of the profile above...lol

My Ideal Person Well for Cpls..wanting fun, open, clean, secure cpls to get to know and see what happens. Looking for real ppl that really want to meet. No expectations, just conversation, laughs and see where it all may go.

For the fantasy...wanting confident, patient, imaginative ppl that maybe have a touch of an aggressive side. I am very picky on what I look for in this scenario, so dont be offended if your not what I want. I dont play games or lead any body on. Just talk and then we will see if I share with you the details.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
bet you wouldnt even know them if I listed them

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Well that has changed continuously thru the years. As I
grew sexually thru the years as well.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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