I'm Mike, a 34-year old single guy, and I am here looking for a lady that I can share time with. I would first like to take a moment to thank you for reading my profile. Once you get to know me, you’ll find I’m an outgoing guy, who enjoys socializing with friends. I take pride in my appearance, but I don't fuss about it. I am quick to laugh, enjoy taking a joke, and even make a few at my own expense. I believe that sensitivity is key to a relationship, keeping both people connected builds the romance. A friend of mine once said, "The great secret of life lies in choosing the right woman. It's a *mother's* job to tell you not to play with fire. Marry the girl who tells you, 'Go ahead.'" Some specifics - Philosophy of life - I'm a live-and-let-live guy. If you're not hurting anyone else with what you do, you've got every right in the world to do it. Turn-ONs for me - good conversation, kisses, hugs, cuddling on the sofa watching TV or movies, smelling your perfume, you running your nails up and down my back (I LOVE that!), you grabbing my head or butt while we're kissing and hugging, and later, giving oral for you. Turn-OFFs for me - dishonesty or games from a woman about where I stand with her, being stood up on dates. Smoking - I'm a non-smoker, as opposed to an anti-smoker. Meaning that, while I'm not a smoker, I don't mind if you are. Drinking - I don't mind a drink or two, but I tend to be especially careful to not overdo it when I have to drive later. Attitudes - I'm protective, not possessive (well, maybe a little), towards my partners and friends. I try to be open-minded. I like it when things make sense, and try to understand what I'm missing when they don't. I prefer to deliver more than I promise. Where friends are concerned, I prefer quality over quantity: someone who I can trust implicitly as opposed to shallow chumminess. Who owns you? Who runs your life? Who should - you or someone else?

My Ideal Person I'm not looking for someone perfect. Just someone comfortable with herself and seeking another for fun and friendship, maybe more. Once we get to know each other a bit, I have a very friendly personality and would prefer the same. A brain is a must - idiots get boring after about a minute - what's your favorite book?

Specifically, I'm seeking (and offer in return):

Honesty above all else
Intelligence
Reciprocity - what you give, you get back
Loyalty - cover my back, I'll cover yours
Respect, of a sorts (after I've earned it) - an irreverent kind of respect
Open lines of communication
Punctuality - "Let's meet at 7:00" doesn't mean "I'll show up at midnight"
Willingness to offer, listen to and discuss new ideas
Compassion
Kindness
A shoulder to cry on (not as often as I'll offer one to you...)
A training / debate / playtime partner
Someone to have fun with

From the "Looking For" section - it says "Erotic Chat or Email" - I prefer over-the-phone over cyber - I'm not good at one-handed typing.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Metalllica, Whitesnake, Iron Maiden, Overkill, Ozzy, WASP, Evanescence

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Regular intercourse

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Hmmm ... Have to pick 'em out first - Claudia Christian from B5, Marina Sirtis and Jeri Ryan from Star Trek, Melinda Clarke, Alison Hanigan from Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Shannen Doherty

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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