I'm an honest, trustworthy, no nonsense guy & am looking for the same in return, but have found this to be a difficult task here. I say this because I have run into more then my share of HEAD GAME PLAYERS & BS ARTISTS. I ONLY want to deal with honest & sincere women. Additionally, I have found that a number of women talk a big game in their emails, but never actually go out on dates with ANYONE. They are all talk and no action. I didn't join this site just to find PEN PALS. I don't mind chatting back & forth a number of times with an interesting person. It helps to break break the ice & facilitates getting to know about each other before we meet in person. However, if that's ALL you ever want to do, & NEVER care to venture past the shelter of your computer keyboard, please find a a different pen pal, because I'm into REAL RELATIONSHIPS, not an entire semester of typing 101, or fantasizing in cyberspace. As far as my sexual interests are concerned, I never try to pressure anyone into engaging in practices which they dislike. Those listed elsewhere are simply activities which I especially like to engage in, with a willing partner. I can be very flexible in this area. If you don't want to do something, it's simple, we won't do it. Conversely, if you want me to try something new & different (for me), which turns you on, perhaps I'll give it a whirl. That being said, I'm an intelligent, witty, fun loving guy, looking for a good time. While I would prefer to get into an LTR, I am open to other types of relationships. A very big attribute, which separates me from MANY other guys, is my very genuine interest in pleasuring my partner every bit as much as "getting my rocks off". Before I sound like too much of a BS artist myself, the simple fact of the matter is that seeing & hearing a woman in a state of pleasure is a tremendous turn on & an extremely erotic experience for me. When it comes to loving, I'm not a WHAM BAM THANK YOU MAM type of guy, but the complete opposite. I like for us to take our time, so that we BOTH, hopefully, arrive at a state of COMPLETE SATISFACTION. Of course sex is only one facet of life, FOR MOST OF US!!! As far as leisure activities, I particularly enjoy riding my racing bike, (the human powered variety) on fast paced rides. When time permits, I also scuba dive, sea kayak, cross country ski, & shoot competitive archery. As for more sedentary activities, photography, reading, dining out, going to the movies, playing around on my computer, & watching a limited amount of TV pretty much rounds out the rest of my leisure activities. Physically, I'm in good shape, with the stamina & endurance of a MUCH YOUNGER MAN.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman who is comfortable with what they see in my profile. Honesty & NO HEAD GAME PLAYING are an absolute must. I do prefer women who are at least fairly attractive, as basic chemistry is where it all starts for me. Intelligence & the ability to hold a good conversation also help, as is a good sense of humor. Finally, & very importantly, If we click online, my goal is to get together in person, & have REAL LIVE DATES. This is why I'm here; not for NEVER ENDING email sessions or cybersex. I'm here for a real live woman to touch, feel, hold, caress & more, MUCH MUCH MORE!!!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Doors, Beatles, Stones, The Who, Kenny G, Roy Orbison,
Sam Cooke

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'm not into sexual fantasy myself, it's reality
that turns me on. However, I'm willing to indulge in
my partners fantasies, as long as they don't involve
pain or make me laugh too hard.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Massage, Lots of Foreplay

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
YES DEFINITELY!!! All the young, drop dead gorgeous, female
superstars who fantasize about me!!!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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