LOCAL ONLY-NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE WHO TRAVELS OR IS PASSING THROUGH TOWN TEMPORARILY!! I tend to be shy at first, but once I get to know a per a little I get more comfortable. I really miss being held and touched, and especially kissing. The last half of my marriage we were practically strangers. UPDATE: I've been on and off AFF for the last couple of years, and in all that time I think I've only had a handful of what I would call successful encounters, especially with men alone. The more messages that I read from men, the more dissatisfied I am finding myself. So what I want to do is focus myself on finding a woman to be with-whether it's once, or becomes a regular thing. I generally don't spend weeks messaging with someone before I decide to arrange to meet them, but don't expect me to just run out and meet you after a message or two. I've got to get a feel for the kind of woman you are before I decide if we might connect, so be patient with me. I generally reply to most of my messages, but let me give you a hint-subtle works best. If I get a message along the lines of "wanna fuck?" I'll most likely delete it without responding. Any questions, please feel free to ask me.

My Ideal Person I don't really know exactly what kind of woman I'm looking for, but I can't go younger than about 26. I don't want to feel like I'm old enough to be your mother. So write me and we'll see where things go.