Alright then, this is the difficult bit, to describe who I am in such a way that it will invite lots of nice emails! I'm in a very loving and stable relationship at home, so a lot of people ask why I need to be on here at all........well, I guess I'm just greedy, lol. I am looking to *enhance* what I have at home, not replace it. Alright then, this is the difficult bit, to describe who I am in such a way that it will invite lots of nice emails! I'm in a very loving and stable relationship at home, so a lot of people ask why I need to be on here at all........well, I guess I'm just greedy, lol. I am looking to *enhance* what I have at home, not replace it. In my home relationship, I am the dominant one with my husband being very submissive and very girly - he is absolutely my best friend and a wonderful husband and father, but he is also very aware that he is not able to satisfy me like a *normal* lover could. He loves hearing about any men i choose to chat with, and gets very turned on hearing any details I choose to share with him about any meetings I choose to have. I know i'm very lucky - I get to have my cake and eat it, and as often as I like really!

My Ideal Person My Ideal Person: hmmm, ideal man.......does he exist??? I'm quite fussy, which I'm aware might make me seem like a hypocrite since I'm hardly the slim and gorgeous woman that most men would immediately jump for - but I have to be honest! I do rather like good looking men, with nice bodies - definitely non smoking as smells are very important in chemistry I feel. I do love romance and charm, general good manners, things like that - a polite email will always get a reply from me, even if it's to say no thankyou, as I do feel that's important. I do try not to discriminate on age - I do tend to go for younger men, but some older men look far younger than their years and do tend to be far more attentive going on past experience. I do take my time getting to know new people - I will not offer to meet up until I'm sure that I'll be safe and well looked after, and I'm definitely not looking for strings of one-off meetings.

Wow, what a screed that was, hope you've read through all that and not been put off too much - I'm actually a very normal woman. I'm a full time mum and housewife, I have two children who keep me on my toes, so my availability might not be as good as some ladies on here. My profile photo in the stripey top was taken first week in april, so is very up to date - I'm a large size 18. Hope there are a few men out there who might find me attractive enough to write xx
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What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Spanking, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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