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flashmarker0311 58 / M
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Santa Fe, New Mexico, United States
 
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flashmarker0311 58/M
Santa Fe, New Mexico
Happy Halloween!-Dont dream it be it!(Rocky Hrror)Been Hella Busy! Founding a beneficial Org. 4 Community!'-501C3 !
Introduction
Greeting AFF members! (10/16/2018) Update- Happy Halloween Every One! BEEN HELLA BUSY! Founding a 501C3 that will be Beneficial to the Sf community in at least 5 major ways. Some experts associated with major philanthropic wealthy donors and with organizations that assist, teach and sponsor/mentor these types of non-profit organizations have expressed that there will probably be more beneficial results, affects or effects? Which absolutely flabbergasted me, in a couple of meetings. I have been volunteering for over 4 years W/local & other orgs(501C3's) I came up with this idea from the voluntary participation for 4 yr.s and my involuntary analysis' (continual impressions, identifying pitfalls, staying the course to see results, realizing some managerial perspectives, further research) AnyHoo-- I do not know if iwill be or am the correct per to be the C.O/CEO of this org. in 3-5 years. But if this Idea that i stumbled into, this was not my plan, if it does progress, and is beneficial for this community in ways i might have predicted and others might have---- I still do not know if i can run the whole thing. i think there are more qualified types that could be the GM. i could be a manager, board member, or part of an aspect, a part or particular group or division within the ORG. in other words i am not going to keep this incredibly busy schedule up! I am doing it for the community, i am not being paid. And i have a military retirement. and i do not think I am in the correct tax bracket to have gone even this far-LOL! But some of these incredibly wealthy and detached from typical American society, have assured me that i will be compensated for my past work. and they are talking about some large figures for s, and i have to have a reaiable, trustworthy incredible board of management in place before4 we ever delegate any of the funds to go to anywhere out of the 501C3's account, and the 501C3 will not be fully operational until then I have insisted on this. (501C3's have to be fully/totally accountable-&-transparent in records, on the books, accounting, etc) And i have been writing/corresponding with most of these wealthy elite donors for almost four years and have contacted most of them in the past. Regarding Contemporary American "Blue-Chip' possible Art Acquisitions. Maybe that is why they trust me / i do not know. Still interested in correspondence, friendships, a variety of possibilities. But there has to be recent Testing/health/blood-testing paperwork regarding social-d.-hiv status. i have it. and this has been a problem with a couple of interested individuals in the past! Also- i live in an art warehouse space, it is not a trendy type loft-LOL! Wishing everyone a pleasant, productive and positive rest of the year of 2018! And beyond! -sincerely flashmarker I am always interested in correspondence, texts, phone calls, leading to eventually meeting,. But I do not go out looking for casual sex anywhere, no cruising here. I do not go to meet people in a bar, 'lgbtq' bar, whatever bar. If I meet someone at a concert(similar interests, the opera, a musical, and there is a bar there, that's one thing....) I am very 'Pan-sexual" , interested/open to different, "not typically-normal' relationships, But I am not "Promiscuous", I do not believe in seeing a married per without their partner participating/meeting for their approval, in per, first. (No Adultery, No lying, deceptive behavior) I am safe, sane consensual. Hardly ever date or see anyone really. But if I am going to eventually meet, I will have and expect the other party to have a recent blood/medical test, copy of the test. like yaah know??? Like Ohh My Gawd, you cannot bring a copy of the test with you? Like, then we are not meeting , --(this has happened before, and I refused to meet) I am very Bisexual and open minded to the interests/desires of other people, who wish to be Lovers, play partners, friends with benefits, and i ultimately wish to find a substantial lasting relationship--But until that time I am quite open to having great quality Fun- especially if there is some kink, role playing, light domination/submission involved- I enjoy being a Dom, switch or Submissive slave, especially being a submissive slave, but it all depends on my Lovers/play partners- their interests, wants, desires.And i have some preferences of which role I would desire- according to their looks, stature, their sex, their interests in any kink or a specific role. I am very flexible, open minded and i truly enjoy making people very happy and satisfied in bed. I enjoy being with Bisexual M/F couples as their very attentive lover, kink does not have to be involved. i enjoy being with Women, and being their very unselfish masseuse , Oral and very unselfish lovers, I especially enjoy performing oral sex on my female lovers for as long as they can stand it, and after breaks, and on an on...whether there is an interest in kink or not, does not matter. I enjoy and have been with, enjoy being with Transgender partners, Mto F, whether they are a bottom, switch or Top. I especially love hugging, holding, kissing them, long hours of kissing, making out, erotic kissing, massaging, you name it! Love spending time and being there, for them, and taking them out. If they want me to be dominant or submissive with them, it's all good for me! I have been told by both women and men that i am very skilled in performing oral sex, whether it be cunnilingus or fellatio I truly enjoy both! And if you really want to see me get into my being an oral slut. put a collar & leash on me, and cuff my hands behind my back. I get incredibly psychologically into being my Mistress' or Masters' oral sex slave and my submissive tendencies kick into high gear! And i will follow all of your orders, including licking & rimming your asshole, licking and worshipping your balls, or your vagina and clitoris, and i will serve and please you until you are totally satisfied! If there are any Gay Dominant couples nearby who would be interested in dominating and using me for a weekend or longer, I would definitely be very interested! Or a very Domineering and Dominant gay man who would be interested in meeting, hooking up for a night or long afternoon/night with me. i would be interested, the More Dominant and controlling that you like to be, the more i am interested in being your submissive lover, I would very much enjoy being your bound, helpless and naked sex slave, who will follow all of your orders and desires, and I respond very enthusiastically to rough, Degrading. dominating treatment and Verbal control, or verbal humiliation,. I would thoroughly enjoy worshipping your cock for as long as you wish, and then if you would desire to change my ties that bind so that you can tie me down in another very compromising position, with my ass up on my hands and knees, and have your way with me, give a good fucking, in the way that you most desire, hard, fast, slow and with rhythim, brutal hard while you grab my head , pull my hair, and tel me that i am your slave bitch and ask me "who's your daddy?" and i will always respond, that You are my daddy! and i am your loyal slave! (Does that sound like any scenario that a Dominant gay/bi male might be interested in? i hope-so, tee heee...) It is not about any real or heavy pain or scary . unsafe situations. it has to be consensual safe and sane participation ! Is there anyone in the Santa Fe Area that would be interested in being my Exercise partner/Work-out-Gym-Motivator? If you can keep me going to the gym with you, I would BE VERY APPRECIATIVE! Does not matter if you are a Man, Transgender, woman. If you are a Man, keep me getting to the gym, and you are Gay/bi, I will be so appreciative, i will do just about anything you want, long massages, Giving you great Long loving Head, Being your bitch boi, slave boi you name it. Same thing with TG and ladies. whatever your pleasure, i will satisfy it. Just keep being a constant pain in my neck getting me to the Gym, and we will work out, do aerobics, ballet, cardio, whatever you are into as well. You will be getting fit too, We will be helping each other. and I am willing to go the extra mile, in making you happy. i love giving long full body massages, performing oral sex on any Sex, being taken in my ass, whatever you would like. foot massages, you name it. I am desperate to get motivated to get back into the Gym! So desperate i will do anything you ask of me, just for keeping me on a regular training schedule! Just have proof of recent HIV Test, Negative. Are there any small Dominant Groups Bisexual/G.G.gay-Male who have their STD negative paperwork, and would like to physically Abduct a very bi-submissive victim (myself) some time? Force me into a larger type vehicle where several members of the group can subdue me, strip me, gag me and handcuff me and bind my legs? then take me to your preferred and planned location where i will be taken to, bound, naked and helpless to resist my nappers.Having no choice but to submit to my captor's Dominance & their deviant desires. Wondering if there are any Gay/leather groups or clubs who would be interested in doing something like this for fun, to me? looking for something that will eventually be a committed, long term relationship= with the right per, or pers! And while i am getting there, if there are some good friends made along the way, with mutual interests, benefits. That is great. But i am not going to jump into bed with just anyone instantly, who i do not know is safe, sane and has their recent results of their STD tests available! . Would ideally like the connection to start with the intellectual, mutual activities (non-sexual) mutual interests (non-sexual) then if we connect the in other ways, the sexual fireworks will follow as well! I dont care about the per or pers, race, religion, sex, color, it is just do we have mutual interests and are my potential partners good hardworking, caring, people, who are positive and/ or know a lot of people in their community who could vouch for them?----as in peral references? good friends, they have known for a long time, i could meet also, out for a beer-meet and greet, or coffee-meet and greet!? I am Pansexual,(Bi?) Sapiosexual-love the mind, submissive. HIV NEGative, tested regularly, i do not do hard drugs. i drink a little. I have been with every sex. and transgendered. When i was young, in between junior & Senior high school, i was introduced to my first Bi experience, with a couple i had a part time summer job/internship with. I am looking for a mental connection, great sex is great, but if you cannot talk, interact with one and other what is the point?

My Ideal Person A good person, hardworking or retired, but still active in anything. I miss being with Bi-Sexual couples (M/F) A LOT!!! Very sub to Bi-couples! I love Dominant women who are smart! Or guys who are smart! or TG's that share interests. Anyone that is smart, a good person, cares about helping others, mutual interests, . The sex is just the icing on the cake!
Ultimately looking for a long term relationship, but a long the way, if i find some great people who are looking for good friends with benefits, No one night stands! I am willing to message and meet before anything physical ever happens! I am a very non-judgemental partner, a very giving partner that is very into giving long massages, foot massages, helping women achieve many orgasms, a sub male partner who loves performing oral, on either sex, for longer periods of time, that most people would consider an Ab-Normally long time LOL! I will receive anal also, from men, women with strap-ons, transgenderd dominants, etc.
Please be tested regularly, have proof, be HIV negative, practice safe sane consensual activities, believe in meetings before any physical activity is taking place.

If we have mutual interests, besides the sexual, if you or you both are more type A, that is great, i could be your helping type b partner, who leans towards being submissive. But i am experienced being Dominant. have done it professionally.

Also If there are any kinky single Dominants/dominant couples, Dominant Groups of any variation, out there looking for subjects for short term slaves, i would be interested. If you would like your house scrubbed top to bottom, help with work for a couple of days, and at nights enjoy tormenting your slave and using him for any sexual purpose you desire, i might be interested. Considering we have mutual interests, you are safe, sane consensual, not on any hard drugs, do not require anything illegal of your captive. i will not do anything illegal, anything with animals, not do anything with anyone under 18, i will not do Scat, or ingest anyone's urine. i will swallow a woman's love juices and a man's.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, a Dominant couple's dungeon playroom.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Gina Gershon, parker posey, either of the Williams'
sisters (tennis stars) ,

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 58 / male
  • Santa Fe, New Mexico, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women) or Trans
Birthdate: March 23, 1966
Travels to: santa fe, California, United States
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: Ample
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: Some grad school
Occupation: Retired Military
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Protestant
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English, Spanish
Hair Color: Other Hair Color
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None
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