OK, I'm an average guy, even though I'm probably not a typical guy... cleancut, smart, a bit of a smart-ass, [B]very[/B] passionate, and strongly oriented toward my partner's pleasure. Not much of role-player, but open to all kinds of fantasy with my girl... lots of pillow talk... lots of eye contact. I'm very oral. Okay, that means I [B]love[/B] to kiss... in public, in private, and endlessly in bed. It means that if I can't go down on you, there's [B]no[/B] rea for you to read any further. It also means I'll be a real pain in the ass at times... caressing & kissing your breasts out of the blue... licking and sucking your nipples when you're trying to sleep. I don't have a set type. There are beautiful people out there of all shapes, sizes, & ethnic backgrounds. That doesn't mean I'll get with just anyone... it means I put a lot more stock in peral chemistry & common interests, rather than a checkbox on a profile page. You'll notice I filled out a pretty fair variety of things under "sexual activities". They include things I enjoy, things I'm comfortable with, and a few other activities that & did once upon a time in previous relationships. You shouldn't assume that I'd insist on doing [B][I]xyz[/I][/B] with [I]you[/I] just because I did [B][I]xyz[/I][/B] a decade ago with a girl who was into it. [B]Deal-Breakers & Pet Peeves:[/B] [B]Smoking:[/B] I just can't be around it. [B]Drugs:[/B] Not interested in hearing from anyone implying that they could be real nice to me as long as I have "party favors." [B]Cheating:[/B] If you're married/attached, then he better be [B][I]in the room[/I][/B], or at least have given his verbal okey-dokey beforehand. [B]BBW's: [/B]I adore Big Beautiful Women, and there are plenty of them here. Frankly, they are some of the sexiest women here. But if you don't leave the house because you [B][I]can't[/I][/B] leave the house, then you've really moved past the whole BBW thing. Not trying to be mean, just practical. Ladies, including a dress size (or even a hint) in your profile can really help clear the air.

My Ideal Person Someone who's sexually adventuresome... who might try something new just to see the look of excitement in her partner's eyes...

Someone with a little creativity, a little common sense, a good sense of humor, plenty of self-confidence...

...and do I really need to mention personal hygiene? Come on, I'm gonna be going down on you... frequently. Trust me, I'll make it worth freshening up a bit.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Way too eclectic to summarize here

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, under the stars, or during a summer storm

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, lactation, kissing, kissing, kissing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, I want you to want me

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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