I'm a married, poly woman who is interested in fun, kinky conversations that may or may not lead to something else. I'm not unhappy with what I have. I'm just a bit greedy and enjoy multiple sexually fulfilling relationships. I'm a plus-sized woman who is active and healthy. If that's not your cup of tea, that's fine. There are plenty of people available on this site. No reason to try to make a square peg fit in a round hole. I have a wide variety of sexual interests ranging from yummy vanilla (vanilla is the most popular flavor for a reason) to the stuff that requires more accoutrements to enact. I can and have enjoyed pain, D/s play, pegging, bondage, e-stim, and multi-partner play, among other things.

My Ideal Person You are interested in and able to uphold your end of the conversation (until you can't - and that's fine too). You enjoy sharing what works for you and exploring those fantasies, even if it's just a mental exercise.

You are honest. I'm not going to judge your situation, but I do need to know what it is.

Should things move beyond conversation, you are a believer in safety. This is non-negotiable, and just a smart practice all around.