I'm a Hedonist, Exhibitionist, lover of group play, and thrive on exploring new experiences with my partner and others. I'm charismatic and can play many roles in the bedroom, though being submissive is not part of my repertoire - I however have no problem co-topping or letting someone else run the show. I play with both women and men, however I am not attracted to men romantically. I sometimes enjoy delving into hedonistic pleasures while Topping men, especially when women are also involved. I enjoy leading in power exchange, delivering moderate amounts of pain, bondage, degrading verbally, and many other forms of "rough sex". I thrive off of the sexual energies I help elicit in my sexual partner(s). I enjoy impact play, especially with wooden paddles or bare handed. I tend to be a little gentler with women, especially in pick-up play scenarios, but find I am more than willing to be sadistic when I'm topping men. I have a Bisexual female play partner that enjoys playing with others with me, and if there is chemistry, we'll happily invite single people as well as couples to join us for a variety of play scenarios. If you reach out to us for a playdate, please have your bio filled out, have attended an event in the Bay (we host or go to almost every East Bay TNG meetup), have taken the time to identify relevant groups and fetishes, and have a face picture or be willing to share one quickly into our conversation. . I also play with couples who are looking for a Bull for cuckold or hotwife play. I frequent Bay Area events - if you see that I am attending one don't hesitate to chat with me before, in order to see if we have a connection. Outside of kink, I work in software security and do Jiu-Jitsu to stay (and get) in shape. I love music (clubs, concerts, festivals, you name it) especially of the electronic variety. Updated 11-13-2018: 100% Dominant 100% Degrader 99% Master/Mistress 99% Non-monogamist 97% Daddy/Mommy 94% Voyeur 87% Owner 87% Rigger 84% Exhibitionist 78% Experimentalist 60% Sadist 51% Brat tamer 46% Ageplayer 43% Vanilla 41% Primal (Hunter) 0% Switch

My Ideal Person Would be a single lady that wants to do some group play exploration with me - or a couple that would like me to join them.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

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