I am a married (separated) 40 year old white male, looking to meet women. From friends to lovers, and everything..I am honest and open. I am looking to know and spend time with the women I meet. Whether it becomes a friendship or FWB, or a relationship, I don't rule out anything. But I prefer to get to know who I am with, and learn about each other to make our time together worth it. Nothing wrong with hooking up, and I won't turn it down of course, but I love women, everything about them. It matters to me that we both are comfortable and honest. I am a very visual (I am a photographer) and focused man, self employed and financially secure.I am not looking for a source of money, just good women, likeminded who want to enjoy each others time and not waste it. I have different ideas on the whole concept of meeting women, from passionate lovemaking to hardcore rough dirty sex, it all has a place with me. I am dominant and like to control when it comes to sex, but I also am passionate and open to making sure my partner enjoys it as much as me. Whether that be rough, hard against the wall with my hands holding you down or with anything that opens you up. All in all I am just like everyone else..wanting to have a good time with like minded women. Side note.. I love women who want to be photographed or filmed, sensually or not..I love doing it and it is another aspect that I love, the female form and its sensuality, sexuality and how they can express themselves through pictures and film..it is something I will do legit with nothing expected in return..but that is a side note to why I am here..just FYI.. Send me a message and see if we hit it off, go from there..

My Ideal Person Honest, open and fun. If you can be all that we will hit it off.
I don't judge or want to waste anyones time.
I definitely have a type of woman that I prefer, but to me the attraction I feel is based on the whole person. Of course I love beautiful sensual women, but a woman becomes beautiful and sensual by being who she is..That truly is my biggest attraction.

I like most men have an ideal picture in my head of what makes a "beautiful" or "hot" girl..and that to me is important. But I am interested in the whole person, and who she is. Whether its a one night stand or a relationship, I make these connections about beauty and sensuality with all the women I meet. And its important.
That being said, I love redheads, auburn hair and long hair..a womans eyes to me are so important..and of course, her body. Whether she is heavier or lighter, pale or tanned, soft or firm..it matters to me..but I can't pick one..I truly feel I am with the most beautiful woman when I know she is with me doing what turns her on, what drives her wild, that she is enjoying hardcore or sensual sex as much as I am..that makes her to me..beautiful...
I am a visual and focused guy, I know what I like, and I like all the aspects of a woman that make her who she is.

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