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Lovemizer70 53 M
7  Articles
prositioned   9/1/2018

say no somebody might be in a sting


1 Comments, 12 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
Thehorneydevel21 21 M
1  Article
Life is how you make it   8/16/2018

Life is how you make it if you want something to happen make it happen only you can do it no one else


1 Comments, 7 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
smithjack81 39 M
1  Article
Why is it weird for guys to say "No thanks"   8/9/2018

Why is it weird when a guy turns down a girl? Maybe hes not attracted... girls can do it all the time, but a guy does it and theres something wrong with him.


4 Comments, 32 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
luvgluv19 75 M
28  Articles
Say it firmly but politely   8/7/2018

If you are saying "NO THANKS" Say it with conviction but not with harsh words. Understood some people simply don't get it because in their minds eye they are the most desirable of all partners. If they get TOO persistant Block them


2 Comments, 22 Views, 16 Votes ,3.42 Score
1couple4fwbs 45 C
3  Articles
Try to be nice to everyone.   7/24/2018

We get a lot of messages from others that we are not interested in. I always try and tell them that we are not interested but appreciate them taking the time to us. Our response is thanks for the message but we are not interested in you but wish you luck in your search. We have had some that say thanks you to. Then we have had some that get very offended and say mean things. I sorry but we are ...


4 Comments, 65 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
mattjoe22 44 M
21  Articles
Was punished for saying "No Thanks"   7/17/2018

I live in gated secured condo complex and I love using the workout room and hitting the pool but there is a woman who always appears and tries to engage in conversation. I have told her she is not my type, that I wasnt looking for a liaison and just wanted my peace. <br><br> An hour later, po-po show up and ask all kinds of questions about the lady. I didnt even know her name!! ...


3 Comments, 35 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
Just Say I'm Not Interested   7/8/2018

I am trying to figure out why ladies won't say they are not interested. Instead some choose to not answer respectful approaches from a gentleman. This is very irritating. Most men can accept when they are not wanted, and is told so. Ladies I know you can do better. It's only a select few. Unfortunately some men think with the wrong head. .


4 Comments, 39 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
Chemistry   6/29/2018

So if you meet someone from here and find out the chemistry is just not there, how do you handle it? Do you treat it like any regular date, or because it started with an emphasis on meeting for adult fun, end the encounter quickly. Either way, i think its best to be thoughtful of the impact on others feelings.


3 Comments, 14 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
Slickgf2412 36 M
1  Article
Cam play   6/26/2018

Why is everyone so afraid


2 Comments, 19 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
Be polite   6/17/2018

When somebody sends you a message about being interested in you, the least you can do if your not interested is just be polite and say “ no thank you “.


3 Comments, 25 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
Colby822 41 F
1  Article
A female perspective on saying "No thanks."   6/16/2018

There are so many articles on here about "just tell us you're not interested" and how "ignoring someone is rude." <br><br> As a woman on here, I get a lot of messages and IMs. In fact, I always try to turn off IMs when I first log on because I just don't have the time or ability to reply to every, single message I get. It's not meant to be rude... If I ...


8 Comments, 185 Views, 29 Votes ,5.65 Score
How to say No Thanks, when meeting in person first time   6/15/2018

How do you politely say no thanks, once you've finally met in person, without coming off rude?


3 Comments, 27 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
lovethsebigtits9 45 M
3  Articles
when enough is enough   6/14/2018

when some becomes too pushy and you have to say no thanks, should be enough for any man or woman. letsd have some respect in this world.


2 Comments, 12 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
Rogueadventure2 52 C
1  Article
ouch   6/9/2018

I love all the people on here that take these amazing pictures that fool you into thinking they look amazing. Then they send you a more real picture, this is when I feel lied to! LOL I know that makes me sound shallow but I have a wide sweep in taste and some of these pictures are scary. I always get these after chatting for a while and then I never know what to say. I don't want to be rude ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
up4goodtimennm 49 M
4  Articles
TV TS Dating IM   5/30/2018

Wondering what every ones thought are on the IM here. Is it just me or does it seem extremely rude to not at least say no thanks to a chat request. I understand some people get bombarded with requests but when I can see that it has been read at least say no thank you and move on.


2 Comments, 34 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
ttazz316 58 M
8  Articles
why do women not reply   5/26/2018

most of the women i send messages to don't reply they could at least say not interested or no thanks


7 Comments, 62 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
Saying "No Thanks"   5/23/2018

If someone writes you or even IMs you and you are not interested ... Please have the courtesy to say "no thanks" or "Sorry Im not interested". Dont keep them guessing if you are just busy. Thats how everyone on here gets annoyed and frustrated. Just a thought that might help others


5 Comments, 52 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
GiveMeCurves84 40 M
7  Articles
A difference between aggression and desperation   5/21/2018

I'm sort of torn commenting on this. <br><br> I love it when a woman is confident and strong or submissive and meek, either is attractive. It's hard to say no when someone is "desperate" though, too handsy, overly aggressive and sloppy...ya no thanks.


1 Comments, 11 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Monologue Responding to IM messages   5/17/2018

I'm sure you all experience monologuing when you chat and no one else answers. Such a waste of time. All it takes is for you to reply "no thanks" don't leave us hanging.


1 Comments, 7 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
tiredofthegames6 33 F
4  Articles
why do so few do this...?   5/12/2018

Why do so few people have the courtesy to say a simple "no thanks" as opposed to just ignoring a chat request?


9 Comments, 69 Views, 20 Votes ,3.64 Score
arealbadboy333 55 M
5  Articles
People that don't respond   5/9/2018

How hard is it to say "No thanks." or "I'll pass". With the sketchy performance of TV TS Dating's Messenger, how is any to know if an actual message is getting through? I don't mind saying, "Sorry, not what I'm looking for at this time." but...nothing??? That's just rude anytime and anywhere. Your thoughts?


1 Comments, 21 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
Hi   5/8/2018

How do you as a guy say no thank you to a woman who comes across as self centred and full of there own importance? Even though she is like this I have morals I stick by ...


4 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
i wish   5/5/2018

i wish people has the respect to say no thank-you thank-you


2 Comments, 12 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
IDang4321 35 M
12  Articles
saying no   4/26/2018

just say no like the say in school


1 Comments, 11 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
69clitL0ver 43 M
7  Articles
Does anyone say yes?   4/23/2018

Does anyone say yes?


3 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Courtesy   4/22/2018

Seems that when people aren't interested on here, that they don't even say no thanks. That would reduce harassing texts. You only have to tell me once.


5 Comments, 34 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
thicknrealfun1 42 M
2  Articles
Persistence even after you say no thanks   4/3/2018

I get it quite a bit from couples... but the persistence these days when you say no thank you is crazy. I don't like reporting or ignoring people, but they continually think they are going to change you mind. This is especially the case with couples and gay men on here. <br><br> Anyone else running into this?


0 Comments, 25 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
Jayr658 51 M
3  Articles
We are too busy right now   3/16/2018

So when you meet someone and you agree to meet a second time and they suddenly are too busy right now to meet, I get the hint. I’m a pretty straight forward person, don’t people have the ability to simply say not interested? Seems like middle school behavior. My feelings won’t be hurt, just tell it like it is. Curious what others think.


4 Comments, 32 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
gandchodh 39 M
3  Articles
It's best to say no instead of creating   2/7/2018

I use this site frm almost eight years and found here a lot of fake ID's. And many mention they are here for real fun but when any one contact them they said they are here for fun but they were passing their tym.with chat only. So I think it's better to say no instead of making other fool.


1 Comments, 36 Views, 24 Votes ,6.65 Score
mikeincentralvt 53 M
2  Articles
Why do most people ignore you rather than say no thanks?   2/6/2018

I'm not sure why there is such a hesitation to respond to a 'hello' on chat, but it seems that most people ignore you rather than say no thanks. Why is that? I try to respond to every person, regardless of sex or attraction just out of courtesy. I think it would make for better experience on this site if we did. <br><br> Thougts? Am I wrong?


5 Comments, 48 Views, 17 Votes ,5.11 Score