Succumbing to Curiousity
I use every other aspect of this site and figured it was about time I started a blog. Not quite sure what I'm going to write. But as most people who know me know...I have a very over-active brain that doesn't stop...filled with thoughts of all kinds.
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My Profile for Those Who Cannot Read It
Posted:Oct 5, 2013 10:12 pm
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2019 5:09 pm

I’m an honest, friendly, fun, compassionate, passionate woman who is playful and sexy, opinionated, but not judgmental. I’m relatively independent and do enjoy time to myself, yet much prefer sharing my thoughts and experiences with someone else. I’m easy to get to know and talk to, generally have a positive attitude, don’t hold back when I desire something/someone.

I openly admit that my sexuality is a big part of who I am. It's an important aspect of a relationship. I'm of the belief that physical chemistry is there from the moment you meet someone - or it isn't. I can’t say I'm ready (or able) to settle down for sure, but I'm hoping to find a man I want to be in some type of significant relationship with. I want to “date” – movies, dinners, concerts, yes, chill out at home too, I want the whole package.

My Ideal Person: I don't have a particular body type or appearance that appeals to me. Intellect (not necessarily a brainiac), an air of self-confidence, wit and a touch of sarcasm is what I'm looking for. And, he's got to make me laugh. Playful banter is great foreplay.

I am mainly interested in men who live close by, generally within 15 miles of me. We may have a lot in common, but if getting together is complicated, that's not much fun, is it?

Additionally, even if you're hot, have a great cock, and numerous other redeeming qualities, if you're under 50 I'm not really interested. I'm looking for more then just a superficial relationship. Yes, age is just a , but there tends to be a deeper connection made by people with shared life experiences. I'm looking for that connection. No married men moral criticism, just not what I'm looking for.
From Start to Present
Posted:Dec 1, 2012 2:34 pm
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2019 4:24 pm


August, 2019...No clue what happened here. Many post titles/links disappeared from this list. 😱🥴😮🤪

No categories, just a list from my first to most current blog.

My Profile for Those Who Cannot Read It

[post 87055] /--/ [post 90392] /--/ [post 92292]

[post 92300] /--/ [post 96522] /--/ [post 04320]

[post 657] /--/ [post 264]

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[post 37023] /--/ [post 45580] /--/ [post 70818]

[post 720] /--/ [post 86935]

[post 96937] /--/ [post 18000]

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhh /--/ [post 18267] /--/ Flirt or Tease

Wanna Meet Tonight /--/ What's With The Mug Shots

[post 18496] /--/ A F F Addiction /--/ [post 18776]

They are back /--/ Politics Makes Strange Bedfellows /--/ Oh My Gooooooooooood

[post 32300] /--/ Stood Up /--/ Penetration ooh yeah

Celebrating the 4th

[post 20693] /--/ For Your Age /--/ [post 20646]

If you've got itUse it /--/ Me tooAnd Proud

Bizarre Email /--/ Money for Sex /--/ Defended them in the pastbut

Apparently monogamy's not for me /--/ [post 27894] /--/ [post 21698]

[post 24418] /--/ [post 2]

[post 259] /--/ [post 22455] /--/ [post 26638]

[post 284] /--/ [post 274] /--/ [post 232]

Still trying to figure it out [post 2253680]

[post 21909] /--/ Blog More Than I Thought It Would Be

[post 22267] /--/ And it keeps getting better

And they thanked me She writes with a grin /--/ [post 2253680]

Not What I Hoped For

Did you read the one about /--/ [post 22979]

Tried it, but soooo not me

[post 23529] /--/ EASY /--/ Reciprocating

Couple Things to Be Grateful For /--/ Triple Digits /--/ Am I Becoming A Picky Chick

Labia Origami /--/ Self Pity /--/ [post 252]

They asked /--/ [post 25399] /--/ That Kiss

[post 25661]

A Face You'd Want to Fuck /--/ I've Been Blocked /--/ [post 25982]

Amuse Me /--/ [post 260] /--/ [post 268]

What the heck /--/ Mixed Message /--/ Brazilian Wax Day 1

[post 26638] /--/ NSA No More /--/ Learned Something New

Do The Boys Really Think They Have a Chance /--/ Do You Dabble /--/ [post 27146]

[post 27744] /--/ [post 27990]

Give It To Me Good /--/ Cumming /--/ Yep, That's Me

[post 27580] /--/ Car Sex /--/ Scandalous Behavior SEXTING

[post 280] /--/ [post 28743]

Taking Up Space /--/ In The News /--/ If A Nobel Prize Winner Says So

Just Trying to Be Nice /--/ Why Be Offended /--/ [post 28587]

It's Time /--/ Missing You /--/What's So Difficult About FWBs

Condom Use /--/ [post 28963] /--/ No Self Control

Want It Soooooooooooooooo Badly /--/ In Need /--/ Movie Review Hysteria

Profile Changes /--/ IPad Challenged /--/ Can't Decide What To Do

[post 29798] (VIDEO ) /--/ What Are You Thinking

[post 30022] /--/ Pessimistic Optimist /--/

Keep It Private /--/ Oh Noam I becoming one of them /--/

Challenging Myself /--/ [post 30827] /--/ [post 30842]

Confession /--/ [post 35606] /--/ [post 330]

[post 31751] /--/ Missing In Action

Naked questions /--/ [post 34865] /--/ [post 34959]

[post 36255] /--/ more about me

[post 39333] /--/ Women like a man with a long tongue /--/ Bloggers Same Problem

A Saturday Morning Smile /--/ Gratuitous Tits Pic

Were You Mislead /--/ [post 32044] /--/ [post 32684]

[post 32182] /--/ Better than the alternative

My opinion may piss some people offbut /--/ [post 32300]

[post 32345]

End Of Summer Funk /--/ Not What I'm Looking For /--/ BDSM anyone everyone

You Expect What /--/ [post 3260]

Does This Turn You On /--/ Take a Poll Picture for Does this turn you on 2

Multilples /--/ Where'd the Balls Go

Thought for the day /--/ Computer Literacy /--/ [post 32830]

Let's Talk About /--/ Is Cheating Ever Acceptable/--/ Question for the married or attached people here looking for more

[post 32908] /--/ I've got a bad case of updated /--/ Was It Good For You

[post 33384] /--/ [post 33602] /--/ [post 338]

PornInduced Sexual Disfunction /--/ Morning thought

AFTERTHOUGHTS OF A WEEKEND /--/ I got it bad Do you, too /--/ It's Been Almost Ten Years

[post 33443] Tell all /--/ Abuse ViolationAdultfriendfinder

[post 33600] /--/ Temporary Time Out

Sleepy Sleepy Sleepy /--/ What's The Attraction

Check another one off my list /--/ [post 34064] /--/ Profile Is Turned Off, Yet They Are Still Here

[post 34838] /--/ [post 3428663] /--/ Gone, But Never Gone

[post 34355] /--/ Circumcised or Not

Sexy Bitch An Oxymoron /--/ Loud In Bed /--/ It's been way too long

When all else fails /--/ Men does it matter to you /--/ Have I had all the good ones around here

Question for Blog Readers and Writers /--/ It's Begun and I am NOT Happy

[post 35034] /--/ What do you wear to sleep

Accepting Gifts /--/ I agree Let's Meet /--/ [post 35522]

Ghosting Is it a new dating trend /- / Where39d They Go

[post 35636] /--/ Taste Test /--/ [post 35784]

A Day for Skeptics /--/ [post 35884] /--/ Accepting Friend Requests

Who Initiates Contact Men or Women /--/ Happens When You're Not Looking

Does This Make Me Bi /--/ Grab a Handful

[post 36820] /--/ Banned Words

Just Go For It /--/ It Finally Happened

Oops....Gave up on this index in May of 20. Anything after that you have to find yourself

Making the Effort
Posted:Sep 26, 2019 4:26 pm
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2019 6:08 pm
Do you hold back from contacting people because you just don’t want make the effort? Do you hold back from contacting or responding someone instead of going for it? I used think wtf just go for it, but not so much anymore. Jaded, bored, being too cautious, avoiding disappointment? Why do you think so many of us become this way?
Limited Freebies
Posted:Aug 7, 2019 5:25 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 10:04 pm

I understand the frustration, but how do people expect any website offering a service of any kind be free? Even online newspapers often require subscriptions full access. This is a business. If it was yours, you would want make a profit, wouldn’t you?
Question for Bloggers
Posted:Jun 23, 2019 1:25 pm
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2019 4:30 pm

If you are going to meet up with someone from AF F do you want them to read your blog before meeting, or least show interest in it?
Pop Up Video
Posted:Jun 20, 2019 5:21 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2019 8:12 am
What’s with the pop up video encouraging men to masturbate with fruits and veggies to increase penis size? Does anyone really think that will work? Does the video ad turn you on? Anyone try it?
Semi Self Imposed Celibacy
Posted:May 13, 2019 6:51 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2019 8:51 pm
It’s now been the longest I have gone without sex in about 15 years (post divorce) with someone else, that is, I do masturbate frequently. It certainly isn’t because I am not horny or feeling the desire, but I just can’t get myself to make the effort, or more so, can’t find someone I want to make the effort of meeting for the possibility of having sex with.

I can imagine there is a least one man out there reading this raising his hand saying pick me. But, I most often am getting uninspiring emails and IM’s these days, on this site and other sites (vanilla ones that don’t necessarily say pick me for sex, though ultimately that’s what it comes down to, not complaining, I don’t deny I am looking for it too). Meeting someone online use to start with flirting by amusing banter, filled with innuendo, not necessarily for extended periods of time, but long enough that both of us looked forward to meeting and there was a sexual tension that had developed and we pretty much knew that in person there would be sparks flying. The art of cyber flirtation seems to have vanished. I can even remember not so long ago hours on the phone, and it wasn’t all phone sex.

Not denying that it is partly my fault. I suspect that an over-indulgence in recreational, indiscriminate, and somewhat adventuresome sex for quite a few consecutive years caused me to crave something more. It’s kinda the old “too much of a good thing, etc”. The easy fuck that used to be a mainstay just no longer does it for me. Sure I can orgasm, but once I’m done I’m ready to call it a night (or nooner, if apropos). And the whole encounter just doesn’t feel like it was worth it. No offense to any of the men, some were perfectly nice guys, I just didn’t feel a connection...other than a brief physical one. Hence, seldom a second date.

Not that I haven’t had relationships of any sort, just none monogamous and most recently for a few years a very good friend, a fellow foodie, who lived here, but travelled a lot and I saw on a fairly regular bases. We enjoyed restaurants, a couple vacations...we were friends who enjoyed each other’s company....FWBs. Sex was not extraordinary, but there was strong affection for each other. He recently relocated out of state, so that easy relationship ended.

So my current dilemma is, how do I find a man that amuses me so that I want to spend an inordinate amount of time talking to as well as having sex with. Of course, to make it more difficult for myself, I want someone no more than 12? years younger or 5 older and who lives close by. That’s an urban close by that in heavy traffic on congested surface streets (not highways, or as we call them in
Chicago expressways). I also have the added factor that I currently have an adult living with me in a 2 bedroom condo. We often work opposite hours; however, if I entertain a man at home, unless we are in an established relationship, no sleepovers at my place and well scheduled privacy.

Not even sure how much I miss sex on a regular basis. Even writing that shocks myself. It’s soooo not me!

So that’s my story at the moment. Care to share yours?
He’s Still Here?!?!?
Posted:Mar 30, 2019 12:07 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2019 3:56 pm

That’s what I’m thinking when I see men on the site that I chatted with...or even had sex with years ago.

But, then, I am too!
Been There, Done That, Wrote About It
Posted:Mar 10, 2019 10:39 am
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2019 6:23 pm
I have been here for many years, chatted and posted in groups for a couple years before I started my blog way back in 2011. Though I am no longer actively chatting or meeting people as much as I used to I still check into blogs quite often. I seldom see a topic that I hadn’t addressed sometime in the past. Hard for me not to just put a link to my blog written about the topic as a comment. I always hope that the blogger doesn’t feel like I am just trying to promote my own blog. I know some bloggers are competitive 🤔and don’t want to offend them by doing so. I just feel why re-write what I had already written.

So fellow bloggers, what do you think? Is it okay to refer readers of others’ blogs to posts on your own?

What about re-posting blogs? There is always a new audience with untapped opinions who probably never explore old blog posts.
Masturbation - Satisfying or Leave You Wanting ?
Posted:Mar 3, 2019 2:04 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2019 5:40 pm

When you masturbate, even if it’s to orgasm,
do you feel fully sated or not completely fulfilled?
Wanting more
96 Comments , 927 votes
Profile Pic - Handful of Cum
Posted:Dec 9, 2018 11:31 am
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2019 6:47 pm

Just wonder if anyone finds pic of gooey, gloppy cum as the result of masturbating appealing.

Sometimes a video resulting in the discharge of cum (too clinical sounding?) can be stimulating. That is an actual sex act. But a still photo? Sometimes you just gotta say to yourself....ewww.
Yes, Appealing
No, Not Appealing
18 Comments , 134 votes
Do You Do It Too?
Posted:Dec 9, 2018 8:21 am
Last Updated:Apr 9, 2019 5:24 pm

Had a leisurely breakfast and coffee watching Sunday morning news shows (not like i haven’t had enough news frustration this week), showered, now made my way to A F F. Do I have a multitude of other things I should be doing? Oh yes! So why do I procrastinate? I can wake in the morning and mentally plan out what I need to do and picture myself doing it. Do I? Well...eventually, if it is something that involves others. Though often feel rushed and somewhat stressed as I do it. If not, I may get to it eventually if it only effects me.

Procrastination does not seem to just apply to chores. It’s lifestyle changes too, exercise, improved diet, etc. It’s following up on emails here to actually meet people I might be interested in. Damn, it is even masturbation...get the urge...maybe do it later.

This only effects my personal life. At work, I am on top of things.

So what about you? Do you do it too? Chastise yourself? Vow to change? How do you self-motivate?
What’s With the Cocks in Cars Pics?
Posted:Sep 24, 2018 2:44 pm
Last Updated:Nov 1, 2018 8:56 pm
There are soooo many of them. Pictures men take of themselves sitting in their cars with erect cock in hand. Where are these men parked, or driving, that they feel it is the perfect opportunity to whip out their dick for a photo session?

If you have a pic posted, please let me know where it was taken...I’m curious.


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