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What's the Game Plan?  

rsbrandt44 63M
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9/25/2019 9:20 pm

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9/26/2019 9:05 am

What's the Game Plan?


She's spending all her time with some other guy now. I feel like I've been shoved to the side...just after she told her friends she wanted to spend more time with me than with the other other guy. And I'm not sure how to deal with it.

I guess I just need to follow the same advice she gave me regarding my favorite cocktail waitress in the universe: Chill. Be cool. Don't pursue her or pester her or annoy her. Let her come to you. If she does, she does. If not, not.

"Write it on your heart that every day is the best day of the year." - Ralph Waldo Emerson


monkeyfun2014 44M

9/26/2019 5:47 am

That requires the ancient technique of "Do it, but don't do it" You have to mentally divorce yourself from the idea that you hold for her in your mind. Let it go. Completely.

Find another way to fill your time and keep your brain distracted. Eventually you can distance yourself from who you see them as, and who they really are. It's like a 3D image...relax your soul and it'll come into focus.

Sorry she's got you so strung.


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