Genuine folk on here, where have they all gone ?  

nhex99 43M
8 posts
8/14/2019 10:31 am
Genuine folk on here, where have they all gone ?


As the title says, seems to be so many fakes, no genuine folk on here these days?

What are people opinions on this?

HAMONMAN 59M
5845 posts
8/14/2019 11:45 am

You would be soliciting opinions from fakes . . .


LiveLifeDoU 64F  
2187 posts
8/14/2019 12:04 pm

I'm not a fake and will give you my opinion....

Genuine folk on here get used....we trust people and then get thrown to the curb; we get ignored as there are plenty of hot, young male and females willing to jump right into cyber sex with strangers; we get told this is a sex site and to go find 'relationships' on those dating sites...even if we are not wanting much of a 'relationship' at all.

It takes a lot for the genuine folk to stay here, to continue being friendly, flirty and to not judge everyone by the bad experiences we may have had here.

I'm a tough bitch so I'm still here lol And I am very real.


nhex99 43M
41 posts
8/14/2019 12:09 pm

Good opinion LLDU, thanks


s2ndegree 60M  
9179 posts
8/14/2019 12:47 pm

A lot use sites where it's dependent on the users to communicate through messages. Where as here there are a lot of avenues where boasting and bashing and a whole lot of judgment calls are made. It's all about establishing popularity as first order of business.Traditional sites are much better because their sole focus is on local people only. Everyone here has a profile on some traditional site.They may even show their faces. Looking solely for sex changes people's personalities and the biggest one is how they don't want to be seen even though it's the first thing people are judged by. So maybe that's why you think most aren't genuine.You made a good call!

Using more than all the road!


2Saltie2 62F  
1506 posts
8/14/2019 12:58 pm

What happened to all the men who used to read profiles? That would respect what a woman wants? What is a fake to you? Any and all women who are not interested in you?

Love all animals. Tolerates humans.


Heathen_G 60M
7092 posts
8/14/2019 1:19 pm

You're not going to attract many , if at all any, genuine women, when you don't show a picture of yourself.

Pretty much you're essentially a disingenuous person whining about where the genuine folk [women] have gone.


Heathen_G 60M
7092 posts
8/14/2019 1:22 pm

    Quoting 2Saltie2:
    What happened to all the men who used to read profiles? That would respect what a woman wants? What is a fake to you? Any and all women who are not interested in you?
There is no good reason to respect what a woman noted about what she wants , who knows how long ago..... So much better to just contact her and find out right now, this moment, what she wants.

Women always say they change their minds. So .... men should always take that chance her mind has changed.


BiggLala 47F  
26469 posts
8/14/2019 11:27 pm

I wonder, are you in an open relationship where a prospective person can verify that with your S/O?

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