Sit Back & Relax....
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Posted:Jan 25, 2014 2:32 am
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2018 10:10 am
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This is a little tale of Karma.
You reap what you sow.
If you put unkindness, manipulation, dishonesty, hatred, etc out into the world, then it will come back around to you. Deservedly so.
Some people never learn from their Karma loop however, and their ignorance dooms them to repeat the same behaviors and mistakes, while they pitifully try to place blame on others. Their lack of knowledge, and ability to be responsible is trumped by their enormous sense of entitlement, greed, and selfishness.
But those of us who have been witness or victim to such behaviors need only to sit back and relax while Karma comes to call. It always does.
I do have to say, it is quite satisfying to see a karmic revolution take place. You have to have patience but it is worth the wait.
We have been witness to several instances of Karma kicking ass. I would not say that we take "pleasure" in it, so much as it is just very gratifying.
Interesting too, beside trying to blame others, is anger that karma is happening to them. Perhaps because they don't even realize that it is Karma. They just can't seem to figure out, "how all these 'bad' things seem to keep happening to them"....lol It just must be someone else's fault, someone else's doing. After all...they are such a good person...or at least that is what they would like others to think. But that person knows, they know that they are NOT a good person. They know exactly what they have done to wrong others for their own gain or agenda.
What we also take satisfaction in knowing about someone who has to endure their karmic justice, is that they are miserable. Truth right there. They are not happy in any sense of the word, and are completely miserable.
So, while the rest of us go on about our lives and actually are happy and content...that too is a jab at their miserable life.
They more than likely do not have the happy marriage, good friends, true friends, positive relationships with family and friends, and just the good energy that flows through your life when you focus on what is positive and good about life, in the here and now. Because what is karma reacting to? Negativity. If you fill your life up with it, then that is all you get in return.
When someone is too busy not being responsible for their own actions and behaviors, and only focusing on what they can do to others, or what they can get others to do for them (they think they are not accountable that way) then they are not enjoying life. Obviously. When they get any sense of joy out of trying to control others or believing that they are more important than they really are, then their lives are just empty.
Most of us never get to see Karma on this sort of scale.
A lot of times Karma is just a small nip in the ass if you have wronged someone and know you did. Usually you feel it too and you recognize it for what it is and the key here is...You learn from it.
On a large scale, those "type" of people are always trying to escape karma. Which is why they never "learn" from it. They just cycle and pattern, and keep trying to change the truth with more lies and deceit. The truth will always find you.
With that in mind, the rest of us can continue on about our lives and work on ourselves and our own happiness, which includes being kind to others. You reap what you sow.
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HNW - More Fun With Beads!
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Posted:Feb 14, 2013 12:15 am
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2013 12:06 am
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Here is the other pic I promised. Again I am freakin' late...sheesh! Enjoy!
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HNW - Mardi Gras!
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Posted:Feb 13, 2013 1:05 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2013 11:44 pm
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I meant to post this earlier so it actually would have been on Tuesday....but yeah...that didn't work out. I am sure y'all won't mind though. 
I will post another HNW pic later today as well just for fun! Oh, and sorry..I didn't do the underboob thing. My boobs are too small for any underboob anything lol 
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A Nice Big Round..... ;-P
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Posted:Feb 11, 2013 12:32 am
Last Updated:Jan 10, 2014 12:18 am
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LOL 
I love that one!
"I like big butts and I can not lie..."
Bootylicious!
Badonkadonk!
Anyway...the big day is coming up. Do y'all have big plans? Little plans? No plans?
I am not sure what we have planned. At this point...nothing. We are kind of a fly by the seat of our pants couple. We will see where the day takes us. The good news is, the have no school, so if we happen to be out late, then  .
It is our Anniversary as well. 18 years!
What would I like to do? eh....lately just stay home. Although I could manage dinner out, but then every damn place in town will be swamped with people. Maybe I can make a romantic dinner? With the ...hahaha! Dinner and a movie at home. Some sex later. That probably sounds like the plan.
We never get too fancy. We have tried to make plans for the big day, but somehow they always fell through for one reason or another, so it is just best if we don't plan. Besides, it is really just another day, but it is a marker, so we will acknowledge that. But otherwise, we love one another every single other day of the year just as much, so not really a biggie.
I prefer to get my flowers or candy on any OTHER day of the year because it totally feels more special then, because then it's random and not something that is a reminder for every other person in the country lol.
Laterz! 
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"Ugly" Chatter & It's Counterpart in Swinging
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Posted:Feb 8, 2013 12:55 am
Last Updated:Jan 10, 2014 12:22 am
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I have read and seen quite a few blog posts about "ugly" recently.
More specifically about whether or not you would have sexual relations with someone you found unattractive.
I was pleased to read a lot of the replies and comments. Most people are aware that it is not what is on the outside so much as what the person is inside.
Although physical attraction does play a big part. I mean it is what draws you to a person.
But even physical attraction is a subjective thing.
What one may consider aesthetically pleasing, may not be to another.
Another term that is used frequently and even has a song dedicated to it is "beer goggles".
To be drunk enough to have sex with someone you normally would not, simply due to their looks.
In my opinion, that speaks volumes about the person who would even use that term and partake in such misadventures.
Anyone see the movie "Dogfight"? It was a 1991 film with the late River Phoenix and actress Lily Taylor. In the movie, the guys have a 'contest' they call a 'dogfight', in which each guy brings a date and they compete to see who brought the "ugliest" girl. All unbeknownst to the girl of course. It is a decent movie. But all this talk about "ugly" reminded me of it. It goes hand in hand with the notion that the more you get to know someone, the more you see a different kind of beauty. Inner beauty. Which is more important than outer beauty.
In the swinging lifestyle, there is the term, "taking one for the team". This implies that one half of a couple is not physically (sometimes its personality) attracted to the corresponding member of the other couple, but will go ahead and 'play' anyway because their own partner is interested in getting it on.
That particular practice should be avoided however. It isn't wise to play that way. Getting to know someone before hand could also put an end to this way of thinking too. Rather than just going out to bone the first couple you meet, or promising to bone before meeting. It all leads to what could be some uncomfortable and or, awkward situations lol.
Yes, I speak from experience. Perhaps one day I will share some of our crazy encounters. lol
Just try to be nice to people. Even if you are not attracted to them right off the bat, doesn't mean that can't or won't change at a later date if you keep up conversations and acquaintance.
Like the saying goes: you can't take back the words once they are spoken. So if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. Such simple lessons to always remember, because they always hold true. If you just can't get past looks, then just move along and don't waste anyone's time.
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HNW - On a Thursday
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Posted:Feb 7, 2013 9:32 am
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2013 1:08 am
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OMG...sorry I am late!
Been very busy.
With what?
Ummm listing things on the bay, family stuff, friend stuff, super bowl stuff, and just stuff stuff. 
We had a cool little super bowl party. I don't watch football, but we always have a super bowl party to watch the commercials and the half time show. lol. It was a fun time. Family and friends. Gets us all anxious for summertime get togethers outdoors.
I didn't have time to take pics with a new piece of lingerie...but I did use another shot in the pale pink lingerie. I will try to get to new shots this weekend.
I hope all you cool cats are keeping it real and having a good time.
Kisses!
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). I will pretty myself up for him. We will have dinner...still not sure what I will make...maybe a pasta dish with a salad. It is a yummy Italian sausage with bow tie pasta, tomatoes and cream. Delish! Movie-wise we have a ton that we have yet to watch...I am thinking something with Liam Neeson 
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