Once It's Over... It's Over... Isn't it... πŸ€”  

Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 12:13 pm

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Once It's Over... It's Over... Isn't it... πŸ€”

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She was... a perfect view. A woman, I would have been proud... to have draped, over my shoulders. She was standing tall... my height. Her black dress, hugged every subtle curve, of her body. Anyone would notice, her 'better than perfect posture'. You know... the type you'd see, in gymnasts or ballerinas? Her eyes, were deep, brown pools. I could loose myself, in those. I looked away. I was slightly taken aback... when she turned to me and spoke.

"You were here first. Go ahead. I'm in no rush," she smiled.

"Neither am I. You look, as if you're on you're way to somewhere."

"No. Actually... I'm on my way back ... from somewhere," she nodded.

I took a step closer. I put my energy drink and nature bar, on the counter... next to the cashier and reached for my wallet. I guess... I must have created a slight breeze. She looked amused, as she spoke.

"You're wearing the same cologne, I bought for a boyfriend... once."

"Really? He sounds, like a lucky guy!" I replied.

"He was... lucky, for a while," she laughed. "I've moved on. Now... he's just a friend. Someone, I once knew."

The cashier, stood there and watched us. No one else, was in the store. I pulled out my credit card. She spoke again.

"Actually... I just accidentally, ran into him, at a restaurant. It was his birthday. A friend of mine, tried to get us back together. What a mistake. HUGE... mistake!"

"I know what you mean," I replied. You could have just sent him a card, or called him," I tried to make a joke.

"For me... once it's over, it's over. And I'm not into, touching someone, over the phone. I pushed away. He's still pulling," she feathered a stray hair, from her eye brow.

I'd paid. I waited, while she did the same. Reaching into her purse, she pulled out her wallet. "Pump number four."

She paid, then turned and brushed my arm... as she spoke.

"Nice meeting you. I really love ... that cologne. Don't give it up."

Flashing a silken smile, she strut her way out the door. I watched... as she stepped into her car.

Something she said, struck me. Is it possible, to touch someone... over the phone? If I was her 'ex' ... even a phone call from her, might keep me going.

I was halfway to my car, when I realized something. Damm...! I'd forgotten to buy, a Lotto ticket. I trudged back inside. I looked at the clerk, behind the counter and frowned. He looked back at me, grinned a wide grin and spoke.

"Lotto ticket? I didn't want to interrupt."


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So...
Is it possible to build a relationship; to 'touch someone', over the phone?
Is there a second chance, once you've said goodbye?


My usual question: Whatcha y'all havin' for dinner?

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 12:13 pm

I'd say that it is possible to build a relationship over the phone. It's happened to me. I don't know when or if, I might meet that person. I guess we'll see what happens, when that day comes, right? πŸ€—

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 12:14 pm

Who comes up with these questions? lol 😁
I've split with someone and then, we tried to give it another shot. It usually, didn't work out for very long. The issues that we had, kept cropping up. Although... in some cases we've remained friends. But it's rare.
Once you say goodbye... you say goodbye. πŸ™
My EX and I are cordial to each other. We don't exchange birthday cards or anything. I did text her. She texted me back. 😊

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 12:14 pm

I still have hamburgers left over... So them and potatoes and a salad, sounds like a good idea.πŸ˜‹
How many days in a row can you eat the same meal?

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superbjversion2 64F  
15431 posts
5/16/2019 12:40 pm

Yes, it's possible to build a relationship over the phone .... but it will only give you the framework. Finishing touches need to be done together in the real world.

I believe in second chances. However, by the time a relationship ends, second, third, fourth, etc chances have already been given.

I had a nice grilled ham n cheese sandwich for lunch. I'll think about dinner when I get hungry again.

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pocogato12 66F  
26861 posts
5/16/2019 12:45 pm

Yes it is possible to "touch someone" over the phone. When you are apart, it quite often the only way. And yes, I have given second chances. All were mistakes except one. And I went to Long Horn for lunch. Supper might be a pork chop and salad- but only if the hunger wolf appears
PS Lobster blog was 7/2018

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yesmamallthetime 51F  
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5/16/2019 1:29 pm

I guess I feel you can touch someone over the phone. Or text now adays. I spoke to someone the first time after finding out about another friend passing away. His comfort was very valuable at the time. I am glad he offered to chat. He doesn't often talk on the phone as he has a hearing problem but made an exception for me. That was very nice and appreciated.

I am hungry. So thanks for the prompt to go make something to eat. I will probably just have a tuna fish sandwich. I should make a salad but I am craving bread too. LOL . I rushed out the door today and have only had a couple of coffees. LOL

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Tmptrzz 56F  
58691 posts
5/16/2019 1:31 pm

I have to say it is absolutely possible to touch someone over the phone I know I have, maybe not physically but most definitely mentally. That's a great story, as I am with her once you have left you have to stay gone.

Now for dinner, I know you know my menu today, I baked a Turkey over night with stuffing, mashed potatoes and gravy, steamed peas. And my famous Chocolate Fudge Cake for dessert. I hope your day is a good one and you enjoy a fabulous dinner this evening..

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1seeking1 53F  
1716 posts
5/16/2019 1:40 pm

I think it is possible to touch someone over the phone. Exes are usually good reason they are an ex.


lust4life59 60F  
70 posts
5/16/2019 2:04 pm

If you couldn't "touch" someone over the phone, there' wouldn't be so many phone calls made to loved ones over the holidays. To build a relationship, I'm sure it's possible through any media, after all, didn't they used to do it through letters prior to the invention of the phone?
I'm one of those, when it's over, it's over. The couple of times I've reconciled have not ended well.
Chinese tonight, sans rice, since I'm doing low carb.


Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 3:39 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Yes, it's possible to build a relationship over the phone .... but it will only give you the framework. Finishing touches need to be done together in the real world.

    I believe in second chances. However, by the time a relationship ends, second, third, fourth, etc chances have already been given.

    I had a nice grilled ham n cheese sandwich for lunch. I'll think about dinner when I get hungry again.
True. You need those finishing touches in person. How do you think we'd do? πŸ€”
Also true about those chances... 😏
I love ham and cheese. Actually... doesn't anything go well with cheese? πŸ˜‚

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 3:43 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    Yes it is possible to "touch someone" over the phone. When you are apart, it quite often the only way. And yes, I have given second chances. All were mistakes except one. And I went to Long Horn for lunch. Supper might be a pork chop and salad- but only if the hunger wolf appears
    PS Lobster blog was 7/2018
Ooooo... Nice pic! I'm hungry!
All but one? πŸ€” ... and then what.....? πŸ€—
You eat so healthy. I love pork chops. Ever notice.. when you're hungry... no matter what's on the menu - it's the greatest? ❀️😊
Yes to the lobster... you're lucky! πŸ€

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 3:48 pm

    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    I guess I feel you can touch someone over the phone. Or text now adays. I spoke to someone the first time after finding out about another friend passing away. His comfort was very valuable at the time. I am glad he offered to chat. He doesn't often talk on the phone as he has a hearing problem but made an exception for me. That was very nice and appreciated.

    I am hungry. So thanks for the prompt to go make something to eat. I will probably just have a tuna fish sandwich. I should make a salad but I am craving bread too. LOL . I rushed out the door today and have only had a couple of coffees. LOL
Well... That was a good one story. But you talk with many... here, don't you?
Tuna salad is always a good choice. I've done days and days with coffee only.
By the time I get home, I'm ready to eat a horse. That's not the healthiest... is it? πŸ΄πŸ€”

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 3:52 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    I have to say it is absolutely possible to touch someone over the phone I know I have, maybe not physically but most definitely mentally. That's a great story, as I am with her once you have left you have to stay gone.

    Now for dinner, I know you know my menu today, I baked a Turkey over night with stuffing, mashed potatoes and gravy, steamed peas. And my famous Chocolate Fudge Cake for dessert. I hope your day is a good one and you enjoy a fabulous dinner this evening..
True.. over the phone vibe. πŸ“±
I would have thought that you were a 'second chance' type of girl. But I get your point.
You're lucky to be able to prepare such a great dinner for a mid week treat. I've only had those meals on weekends and special occasions. You're so good to your crew.
Are they appreciative? lol... 😁😘
If not... I can think of someone who would be. 😜

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 3:57 pm

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    I think it is possible to touch someone over the phone. Exes are usually good reason they are an ex.
Yes to the phone! πŸ“±
"That's why there are exs..." Eeee.. Harsh.. lol. Ever wonder if they ever turn it around?
Here's another Q... It's always about them. Is it ever about you? Or no thoughts to what you... might have done? It's just a Q... πŸ€”πŸ˜˜

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 4:02 pm

    Quoting lust4life59:
    If you couldn't "touch" someone over the phone, there' wouldn't be so many phone calls made to loved ones over the holidays. To build a relationship, I'm sure it's possible through any media, after all, didn't they used to do it through letters prior to the invention of the phone?
    I'm one of those, when it's over, it's over. The couple of times I've reconciled have not ended well.
    Chinese tonight, sans rice, since I'm doing low carb.
True about the phone. πŸ“±And a really good point, about letters. Hmm.... yep. That's true... πŸ‘
Oooo.. Chinese is a great choice.. Man I'm hungry. I shouldn't reply to these comments, before I eat. lol.
So.... how do you soak up the sauce and all that other good stuff, without the rice ? 😊

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sexyldy1000 58F  
3052 posts
5/16/2019 4:11 pm

Yes, I agree it is possible to touch someone and build a relationship with them over the phone. It sets the foundation and removes any uncertainties or nervousness prior to meeting face-to-face.
Usually by time a relationship ends, a series of chances have been given, so it’s truly over.
Dinner tonight is my favourite β€˜spring mix salad’ topped with mushrooms and grated Parmesan cheese.

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.


SeaGirlFL 55F
7981 posts
5/16/2019 5:21 pm

Yes, it's definitely possible to touch someone over the phone. I had a long distance relationship over the phone for quite a long while before we ever met. It fizzled away about a year ago.

No, once it's over, going back is never a good idea.

Dinner tonight, a cesar salad.

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 5:27 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Yes, I agree it is possible to touch someone and build a relationship with them over the phone. It sets the foundation and removes any uncertainties or nervousness prior to meeting face-to-face.
    Usually by time a relationship ends, a series of chances have been given, so it’s truly over.
    Dinner tonight is my favourite β€˜spring mix salad’ topped with mushrooms and grated Parmesan cheese.
Sounds like you've had some phone experience. So... what happened? Did you get meet?
I love salad... especially if it springs. What's that about....? lol πŸŒ΄πŸ˜‚πŸ€”

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 5:31 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Yes, it's definitely possible to touch someone over the phone. I had a long distance relationship over the phone for quite a long while before we ever met. It fizzled away about a year ago.

    No, once it's over, going back is never a good idea.

    Dinner tonight, a cesar salad.
Fizzled? How could it fizzle with you?😢
Did you meet? πŸ€—
Cesar is good...
So... no second chances? hmmm... πŸ€”

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Heathen_G 60M
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5/16/2019 5:39 pm

You sure blew that encounter all to hell.... perfect chance to get her number and see her again.... but you messed it up.

Is it possible to build a relationship; to 'touch someone', over the phone? ... No. Only over the phone, only plays havoc with the imagination.

Is there a second chance, once you've said goodbye? ..... If you mean after a breakup? Sure, but a second chance would not be a good idea. Now they've lost all respect for your "Word", and next time you breakup with them, they won't take you seriously.

If you mean with 'that' woman at the cashier line? If you see her again, yes, there can be a second chance to get her into your bed...... but realistically if she is at all attractive, next time you see her she will likely be involved with someone, or dating someone.... some women can only date one at a time.

But my advice on that; give her your number anyway.... regardless if she is involved or dating someone, or some.... doesn't matter.... put your number in her pocket.


Heathen_G 60M
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5/16/2019 5:47 pm

The woman at the gas pump [shown picture].... she has really short hair.. so she is involved with someone or married...... but , again, even in that situation, and [were this to take place in real life with you] you like what you see,....give her your number anyway.


Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 6:09 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    You sure blew that encounter all to hell.... perfect chance to get her number and see her again.... but you messed it up.

    Is it possible to build a relationship; to 'touch someone', over the phone? ... No. Only over the phone, only plays havoc with the imagination.

    Is there a second chance, once you've said goodbye? ..... If you mean after a breakup? Sure, but a second chance would not be a good idea. Now they've lost all respect for your "Word", and next time you breakup with them, they won't take you seriously.

    If you mean with 'that' woman at the cashier line? If you see her again, yes, there can be a second chance to get her into your bed...... but realistically if she is at all attractive, next time you see her she will likely be involved with someone, or dating someone.... some women can only date one at a time.

    But my advice on that; give her your number anyway.... regardless if she is involved or dating someone, or some.... doesn't matter.... put your number in her pocket.
Nah... you have a point, but not a good one.
Just cause you see and speak with a woman.. doesn't mean you throw your number at her. Does it? I didn't think it was the thing to do. She was a player...
Yees.. she was fine! But rebound chicks? She was but not for me. Too young. I don't have to spell it out in these 444 words. You can infer.. right? I should have elaborated.
As for the pic.. Come on... I picked one up off the net, to fill my prose. But you knew that...
Yep.. She was a hot woman.. outta my leagues.
Still.. I had fun. Wouldn't you?

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 6:14 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    The woman at the gas pump [shown picture].... she has really short hair.. so she is involved with someone or married...... but , again, even in that situation, and [were this to take place in real life with you] you like what you see,....give her your number anyway.
Naw.. it wasn't going to happen. It went by to quickly. It was just a slice. You know what I mean. Too quick. It would have come across as too needy if I pressed for a number. Hey... I live in a city of 4.5 million. Other fish.. as they say. I'm not desperate. πŸ‘

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azriel1970 48M  
24797 posts
5/16/2019 6:42 pm

Sadly yes it seems once it is over it is over.......


kimberliejo1 42F  
1558 posts
5/16/2019 7:46 pm

Okay wow... it's a good thing Doctor KJ is in the house, Lol... If there is a bonding love in a relationship and it ends for other reasons than that love... then there is possibly a second and probably only a second chance! A bonding love is probably the only thing that could sometime later overcome some whimsical reason that a breakup ever occurred... otherwise more than likely not a 'chance in hell' would a get-back-together ever be worth the effort,,, Lol. The movie 'About Last Night' should give some insight to this... it was very true to nature! Reach out and touch someone... yelp, wasn't just a slogan, Lol... What's for dinner... Hmmm, had grilled ham and cheese on wheat and tomato soup,,, good huh KJ

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 7:53 pm

    Quoting azriel1970:
    Sadly yes it seems once it is over it is over.......
Sadly or not.... I guess it does.
I'm sure you have a story or two to share. πŸ‘
There's always tomorrow right? 😢
There's always the phone... right? It still works, no? πŸ“±

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/16/2019 7:59 pm

    Quoting kimberliejo1:
    Okay wow... it's a good thing Doctor KJ is in the house, Lol... If there is a bonding love in a relationship and it ends for other reasons than that love... then there is possibly a second and probably only a second chance! A bonding love is probably the only thing that could sometime later overcome some whimsical reason that a breakup ever occurred... otherwise more than likely not a 'chance in hell' would a get-back-together ever be worth the effort,,, Lol. The movie 'About Last Night' should give some insight to this... it was very true to nature! Reach out and touch someone... yelp, wasn't just a slogan, Lol... What's for dinner... Hmmm, had grilled ham and cheese on wheat and tomato soup,,, good huh KJ
I like the way you put that. A bonding love... hmmm But you're so deep.... you've had more than one of those, right? πŸ€”
No second chances... Ever had the guy, call you up... in tears... begging you?
I'm sure you have! 😭
So sad for that guy... I'll bet there is a story or two there.
Oooo... You're such a healthy eater and the second person here, eating ham and cheese... lol And tomato soup is such a good combo!
Glass of milk and a cookie afterwards? πŸͺ😁

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Livin_my_Life14 49F  
698 posts
5/16/2019 8:43 pm

Yes and Yes

Life is too short to hold a grudge. Negative thoughts are not healthy either.


author51 56F  
74621 posts
5/17/2019 1:08 am

It is definitely possible to touch someone over the phone when you can not be together.I much prefer the sound of the voice over a cold text or message..It bridges the distance and you can hear so much in the voice..Personality, laughter, inflections and the phone sex for me is a huge turn on .. As for a second chance you broke up for a reason and need to remember what that reason was.. Dinner for me was a pasta salad with hot dogs..Quick, easy and so good...lol. Great post my coffee mate..

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/17/2019 4:44 am

    Quoting Livin_my_Life14:
    Yes and Yes

    Life is too short to hold a grudge. Negative thoughts are not healthy either.
True.... So you're always positive? 😊
I try to be...

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/17/2019 4:49 am

    Quoting author51:
    It is definitely possible to touch someone over the phone when you can not be together.I much prefer the sound of the voice over a cold text or message..It bridges the distance and you can hear so much in the voice..Personality, laughter, inflections and the phone sex for me is a huge turn on .. As for a second chance you broke up for a reason and need to remember what that reason was.. Dinner for me was a pasta salad with hot dogs..Quick, easy and so good...lol. Great post my coffee mate..
True... the sound of someone's voice is special.
So no second chances? hmmm.
That's a great food idea. I've never tried that. Sounds simple and quick... and yummy... πŸ˜‹πŸ‘πŸ‘Œ

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superbjversion2 64F  
15431 posts
5/17/2019 8:22 am

"True. You need those finishing touches in person. How do you think we'd do? πŸ€”"

Honest answer? I think we'd be great friends but incompatible lovers ... though not without trying first.

I put the sex in sexagenarian


kimberliejo1 42F  
1558 posts
5/17/2019 10:12 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I like the way you put that. A bonding love... hmmm But you're so deep.... you've had more than one of those, right? πŸ€”
    No second chances... Ever had the guy, call you up... in tears... begging you?
    I'm sure you have! 😭
    So sad for that guy... I'll bet there is a story or two there.
    Oooo... You're such a healthy eater and the second person here, eating ham and cheese... lol And tomato soup is such a good combo!
    Glass of milk and a cookie afterwards? πŸͺ😁
No sweetheart... I don't have any stories on this one, Lol... I've never been in a relationship like that,,, so there isn't anyone to cry for me... is that sad or what? Lol. I just know that if love was over shadowed by something else... given time, there could be a second chance,,, yes! I always like milk with my meals unless say a wine... no cookie though, had a small bowl of peaches... I've read some of the comments on here... you are such a teaser sweetie, yep KJ

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/17/2019 10:16 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    "True. You need those finishing touches in person. How do you think we'd do? πŸ€”"

    Honest answer? I think we'd be great friends but incompatible lovers ... though not without trying first.
Nice pic... btw.😊
Really... Really?
You'd want to try... a few times? Even if you knew the answer? ok...

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/17/2019 10:50 am

    Quoting kimberliejo1:
    No sweetheart... I don't have any stories on this one, Lol... I've never been in a relationship like that,,, so there isn't anyone to cry for me... is that sad or what? Lol. I just know that if love was over shadowed by something else... given time, there could be a second chance,,, yes! I always like milk with my meals unless say a wine... no cookie though, had a small bowl of peaches... I've read some of the comments on here... you are such a teaser sweetie, yep KJ
They've cried... you've just never known.
I'll always have ICE cold milk. It's great.
Tease? Me... nope. Not at all... 😢
You? πŸ€— 😘

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backpocket13 42M
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5/17/2019 5:36 pm

Hey Paul,
.......My Grandmother told me once that relationships were like Milk, If you wake up tomorrow and pour yourself a bowl of cereal only to find that the Milk has Spoiled, you don’t put it Back in the Fridge and hope that It’ll be good the following day, You throw it Out,...........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


Paulxx001 62M
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5/17/2019 7:30 pm

    Quoting backpocket13:
    Hey Paul,
    .......My Grandmother told me once that relationships were like Milk, If you wake up tomorrow and pour yourself a bowl of cereal only to find that the Milk has Spoiled, you don’t put it Back in the Fridge and hope that It’ll be good the following day, You throw it Out,...........
    Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
Great milk story! Definitely worthy! πŸ‘
Thanks for sharing that one! 😊

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author51 56F  
74621 posts
5/18/2019 12:14 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    True... the sound of someone's voice is special.
    So no second chances? hmmm.
    That's a great food idea. I've never tried that. Sounds simple and quick... and yummy... πŸ˜‹πŸ‘πŸ‘Œ
I guess it all depends on the reason for the breakup.. If it is cheating than no second chance or say if all you did was fight as well, than no...

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scoupe42 55M  
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5/18/2019 7:35 am

Another good one!


Paulxx001 62M
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5/18/2019 11:49 am

    Quoting author51:
    I guess it all depends on the reason for the breakup.. If it is cheating than no second chance or say if all you did was fight as well, than no...
Cheating and fights are bad...
Voices are epic.. when you hear them.
Mine (I've been told) is soft... low... hypnotic... πŸ€”πŸ˜˜ Yours? πŸ€—

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Paulxx001 62M
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5/18/2019 12:06 pm

Keeping it real and making sure my 'eyes are wide open' .
Ever see that flic?
Any observation... you have... can be flipped into a blog. Any.
Thanks for popping in.
So... I don't know if you're into NBA, but I'd say... the Raptors are toast. You? πŸ€”

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BeccaLuvs 57F  
16366 posts
5/18/2019 1:31 pm

Actually Paul, me thinks it can be very exciting - (getting to know each other, either over the phone, via text messaging and even, and esp Skype visits - hey there you get to see each other even though you still can't physically "touch'!) Or when you soo need to "hear somebody" ..... somebody special - it will always be about that very special connection though - that person who stands out, has something .....

Supper - pizza time! I wrote a Blog about this before - I buy the pizza bases and put on my own toppings - and then then top that off with tangy melted cheese ..... greasy fingers! And with pizza , must be red, red wine! And ..... good luck with the Lotto!

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Paulxx001 62M
8550 posts
5/18/2019 3:49 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Actually Paul, me thinks it can be very exciting - (getting to know each other, either over the phone, via text messaging and even, and esp Skype visits - hey there you get to see each other even though you still can't physically "touch'!) Or when you soo need to "hear somebody" ..... somebody special - it will always be about that very special connection though - that person who stands out, has something .....

    Supper - pizza time! I wrote a Blog about this before - I buy the pizza bases and put on my own toppings - and then then top that off with tangy melted cheese ..... greasy fingers! And with pizza , must be red, red wine! And ..... good luck with the Lotto!
True... You skype? πŸ€”
I like the phone... πŸ“žI can relax and not worry about the colour of my shirt.
That pizza idea is a good one. I love topping those guys with my own stuff. You eat pizza there? lolπŸ•πŸ˜‚
Lotto? lol... I won some money once. It created a false sense of wistful hope. You ever play? πŸ€”πŸ˜Š

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Naughtypursuit 51F  
2012 posts
5/19/2019 6:19 am

Definitely over the phone is possible. It has worked for me.

For me if I am in a committed relationship then I am of the belief you try to make it work. When its over its over and you can walk away knowing you did everything possible to make it work.

I cant remember what I had for dinner... lol.


Paulxx001 62M
8550 posts
5/19/2019 10:28 am

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    Definitely over the phone is possible. It has worked for me.

    For me if I am in a committed relationship then I am of the belief you try to make it work. When its over its over and you can walk away knowing you did everything possible to make it work.

    I cant remember what I had for dinner... lol.
True! The phone DOES work.πŸ“ž
When it's over, it's over.... there's a song like that, no? lol... When I was younger... I think I tried once or twice, on a relationship. We're more forgiving when we're younger, aren't we? πŸ€”
Dinner is like that sometimes... forgettable... πŸ‘πŸ˜Š
What's on the menu this long weekend? lol... Ya having a party? πŸ€—πŸŽ‰ Something special?

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Naughtypursuit 51F  
2012 posts
5/19/2019 10:54 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    True! The phone DOES work.πŸ“ž
    When it's over, it's over.... there's a song like that, no? lol... When I was younger... I think I tried once or twice, on a relationship. We're more forgiving when we're younger, aren't we? πŸ€”
    Dinner is like that sometimes... forgettable... πŸ‘πŸ˜Š
    What's on the menu this long weekend? lol... Ya having a party? πŸ€—πŸŽ‰ Something special?
When we were younger we were more naΓ―ve and idealistic. Now hopefully we know ourselves better and what we can live with and can't.

I dont party, not much of a drinker so no May 24 for me....lol. Just touristy family stuff. Its dark and dreary all weekend so not even yard work is possible. Perhaps bbq tomorrow if there is less rain.

Hope you are enjoying the weekend. Is this the long weekend you guys dont get and take St Jean Baptiste day instead?


Paulxx001 62M
8550 posts
5/19/2019 2:19 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    When we were younger we were more naΓ―ve and idealistic. Now hopefully we know ourselves better and what we can live with and can't.

    I dont party, not much of a drinker so no May 24 for me....lol. Just touristy family stuff. Its dark and dreary all weekend so not even yard work is possible. Perhaps bbq tomorrow if there is less rain.

    Hope you are enjoying the weekend. Is this the long weekend you guys dont get and take St Jean Baptiste day instead?
lol... I'm older... and still idealistic... lol... 😊
Not a beer guy, at all... Vodka pineapple, slushies, though...🍍 πŸ€”πŸ‘πŸ˜Š
Same grey weather here. I'm by the lake regardless... Waves are choppy... it's bleak and it's great. No one here but the boaters, trying to get their boats ready.
We've got Victoria day off... But we don't get August 5 th off...
Hmmm.. BBQ sounds like a plan. They have steak on special at my guy ... Sounds like a plan... πŸ˜‹
Grab an umbrella πŸ’¦Come join me. Ya got boots?
It's gonna be wet... but who cares ? πŸ™ƒ
If it were that simple.... Oh well... 😢

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pollly_anna 55F  
378 posts
5/19/2019 3:52 pm

Supper was Fish, veggies and salad.


Paulxx001 62M
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5/19/2019 6:22 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    Supper was Fish, veggies and salad.
Really? What type of fish? πŸ€”πŸ 
What about second chances....
.... That's more interesting.
Do you give them.. (men) second chances ? Or do you... just close the door.... πŸ€”

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pollly_anna 55F  
378 posts
5/19/2019 7:40 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Really? What type of fish? πŸ€”πŸ 
    What about second chances....
    .... That's more interesting.
    Do you give them.. (men) second chances ? Or do you... just close the door.... πŸ€”
White fish........generally no since there has not been any worthy of a second chance............now if it was in regards to ex hubby ,yes of course.


Paulxx001 62M
8550 posts
5/19/2019 7:58 pm

    Quoting pollly_anna:
    White fish........generally no since there has not been any worthy of a second chance............now if it was in regards to ex hubby ,yes of course.
True... I believe that.πŸ‘
If you truly loved him... of course.
Yes! Second chances are worth it then... aren't they? πŸ€”β€οΈπŸ˜˜
You're right! πŸ‘I hope you find someone else... Worthy of a second chance. You deserve it. Don't you? 😘

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Wonder167 52F  
2717 posts
5/20/2019 12:02 pm

I know from experience that one can get close to someone talking on the phone. It's much nicer than texting or written communication. You get to hear the giggles or other emotions. Of course, it's still lacking what only face to face can offer.

I've found that if the issues that caused the break up in the first place, go unresolved or unchanged, than the 2nd chance will most likely flop. You can't just disregard it and move forward, it will always pop back up.

I haven't had dinner yet today. Lunch was brussel sprouts, mashed cauliflower and an avocado.

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Paulxx001 62M
8550 posts
5/20/2019 1:35 pm

    Quoting Wonder167:
    I know from experience that one can get close to someone talking on the phone. It's much nicer than texting or written communication. You get to hear the giggles or other emotions. Of course, it's still lacking what only face to face can offer.

    I've found that if the issues that caused the break up in the first place, go unresolved or unchanged, than the 2nd chance will most likely flop. You can't just disregard it and move forward, it will always pop back up.

    I haven't had dinner yet today. Lunch was brussel sprouts, mashed cauliflower and an avocado.
Face to face is the best, but I like the phone. Even texting is ok... But you can only get to know someone up to a point. I think....
Right about fixing things... otherwise, what's the point of getting back together? πŸ€”
You're such a healthy eater...
I think I have to eat more veggies. Can you live on veggies alone? 😢

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Wonder167 52F  
2717 posts
5/20/2019 3:05 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Face to face is the best, but I like the phone. Even texting is ok... But you can only get to know someone up to a point. I think....
    Right about fixing things... otherwise, what's the point of getting back together? πŸ€”
    You're such a healthy eater...
    I think I have to eat more veggies. Can you live on veggies alone? 😢
I really do like veggies, but I love fish and meat...If I had to I could, but not sure it's a choice I'd make for no reason.

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Paulxx001 62M
8550 posts
5/20/2019 3:15 pm

    Quoting Wonder167:
    I really do like veggies, but I love fish and meat...If I had to I could, but not sure it's a choice I'd make for no reason.
Yep. I hear you. One of my daughters is trying THAT lifestyle. When she comes over she educates me and lectures me and provides me with internet links and literature to read.
Then... I stuff her with bacon potato salad and my BBQ chicken legs and thighs - with my special sauce. She stumbles away from the table smiling. She leaves behind a pile of bones... and her face and fingers are covered in that red sauce I serve.
Then she gives me a dirty look. I just hug her and tell her to take some of the leftovers home.
Do you like BBQ chicken? πŸ”πŸ—πŸ˜˜
I'd cut back on the sauce... on your pieces. 😢

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Wonder167 52F  
2717 posts
5/20/2019 3:18 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Yep. I hear you. One of my daughters is trying THAT lifestyle. When she comes over she educates me and lectures me and provides me with internet links and literature to read.
    Then... I stuff her with bacon potato salad and my BBQ chicken legs and thighs - with my special sauce. She stumbles away from the table smiling. She leaves behind a pile of bones... and her face and fingers are covered in that red sauce I serve.
    Then she gives me a dirty look. I just hug her and tell her to take some of the leftovers home.
    Do you like BBQ chicken? πŸ”πŸ—πŸ˜˜
    I'd cut back on the sauce... on your pieces. 😢
Yes, I love bbq chicken. I found some sugar free sauce I've yet to try. You think the woman in the sultry dress like BBQ?

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Paulxx001 62M
8550 posts
5/20/2019 3:37 pm

    Quoting Wonder167:
    Yes, I love bbq chicken. I found some sugar free sauce I've yet to try. You think the woman in the sultry dress like BBQ?
That's... a good question. If I ever see her again, I can ask her. hmmm....
But ya know... it's all about your metabolism, right? Some people can eat and eat and never gain a pound.
I'm like that. But I also watch my portions. ⌚
I can also add some vinegar to it, put less sugar and turn it into a sweet and sour thingy.
Hey... I'd serve the tofu salad and the fat free cheese cake.
You'd be fine!
I'd give that sugar free thing a whirl. I mean... it's all about those grill marks, anyway. Right? lol 😁
But with where you are - steak must be the treat...! hmmmm... 😍

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