Is distance doable for you?  

LetsChillax 52F
9331 posts
6/30/2019 3:48 am
Is distance doable for you?

How far would you travel to meet someone for a glorious weekend of sex?
An hour
Half a day
Drive all day
Fly to meet them
Won’t do it, only for locals

YoungStud84646 21M
6 posts
7/19/2019 9:03 pm

three hours is my hard cutoff. for driving, not the sex, lol

Danielle0088 19F
3 posts
7/17/2019 1:47 pm

If they want to meet me then they can travel themselves. I am willing to travel a little ways but not all day.

Jamesgoots1 35M
18 posts
7/16/2019 12:59 pm

Fly t at least theee or four days then

Lickunow255 46M
4 posts
7/13/2019 5:28 pm

Oh yes it is

1025mws 55M  
673 posts
7/11/2019 3:25 pm

I would fly to see and make love to the right woman.
I would drive 4 hours.

mtguy2019 64M
15 posts
7/10/2019 7:55 am

A plain visit would be nice too. Some gals are fun.

looking4u69ca 58M  
654 posts
7/8/2019 8:04 pm

I would fly but I want a week. For a weekend I would drive 4 hours or so one way.

1hardcock00 55M
12 posts
7/8/2019 5:44 pm

three or four hours is long enough

barbas562 62M
32 posts
7/8/2019 5:33 pm


1seeking1 53F
1814 posts
7/8/2019 3:44 pm

Please clarify, someone I know and I know it is amazing sex or first time meet , take huge gamble? Since I do not drive and limited time, local
should be easier.

Jacknight1273 46M
571 posts
7/8/2019 10:59 am

I could fly if I am positive that we Will have sex.

Most likely to drive all day.

garhfx 63M
15 posts
7/7/2019 7:08 pm

Would certainly depend on the situation. But, somewhere from an hour to half a day.

MrRareity 59M  
3415 posts
7/7/2019 12:42 pm

If we had a connection and I thought it could lead to more I would fly to meet them. If it was just an online connection and I knew it wouldn't go any further I'd travel an hour to meet them as a friend.

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kentuckiana 62M  
48 posts
7/6/2019 10:03 am

If it's a partner, where we share a mutual attraction and enjoy each others company, (in & out of the bedroom), flying to meet them is a privilege & honor. Having met a potential partner on this site, we discovered that me being from the states, and she an aid worker from Norway; that we would be in Shenzhen China at the same time-both for work related responsibilities. We met for the first time in China, hit it off, and I later flew to meet her in San Diego, when she was in the states for a conference. We continue to share holiday greetings, and attempt to always coordinate travel schedules.

Part of the reason I joined TV TS Dating; was due to a heavy, worldwide travel schedule; it is difficult to maintain a casual or serious relationship locally, when you are out of town for week long, or longer periods. Whether it includes sharing intimacy, or just meeting a nice dinner partner, the site allows making a connection with others in destinations, where otherwise; you're stuck in a hotel with room service deliver dinner.

With all that said, if just meeting a new, potential partner for adult fun, probably a drive of more that a couple hours (each way), is about it...Not driving 5-6 hours, even for a weekend of glorious intimacy...'cause if it was that "glorious," I'd probably want to keep it going, and from experience know, that initially a long distance relationship can work, but over time; we all just need to decompress from the demands of travel, cook dinner together at home, get better acquainted, share family & local events, etc.

Just my 2-cents worth...

Wantahardman 58M  
27 posts
7/6/2019 7:33 am

I would drive a couple hours if it looks rewarding. But I tend to travel a bit to other areas too... so that can open up possibilities..

Btccu4 58M
25 posts
7/6/2019 6:00 am

For the right person or persons I would travel 2 to 3 hours, but why should I travel at all "I CAN HOST" !!

Justsittinhere06 57M
4 posts
7/5/2019 10:44 pm

For the right person I would definitely travel

brow6902 54M
9 posts
7/5/2019 5:08 pm

I have driven for 9hours for a weekend with a sexy woman...was worth every second behind the wheel....but was a long ride home tired from our fun!>>!

SomewhereSE 61M  
133 posts
7/5/2019 12:55 pm

I wouldn’t go beyond local (45-60 min) unless we already met in person and had chemistry or more. In my experiences, the greater the distance the bigger a nightmare/disaster it turned out to be. If it’s local it’s not a total waste of time if it goes to shit, there are things to do in the city.

ohhi72 32M
11 posts
7/5/2019 7:31 am

not very far at all

author51 56F  
77066 posts
7/5/2019 5:30 am

I fly to meet but only with the one for me and I them..

One can never have enough JOY in their life...

Akinhardon 49M
24 posts
7/5/2019 12:46 am

I'd drive 2-3 hour...max. Roumd trip.

Lonely2518 55F
294 posts
7/4/2019 11:18 pm

Half a day is long enough of a trip. Any further I would be too pooped to do anything but rest. After all, half the day is a long walk for someone without a car.

Whatsgoingon6666 57M
15 posts
7/4/2019 3:51 pm

Half a day is okay if I have spent time getting to know the lady and we half good chemistry.

HavTongueWilTrav 64M
6 posts
7/4/2019 10:19 am

I live in Dayton, OH and have flown to Boston once, Denver a few times, have driven to Tenn., Ky., Mich. and, In. a number of times, those were some great weekends too.

dubyavee 38M
9 posts
7/4/2019 10:05 am

I voted an hour, but would like more to keep it local.

AMfun4meandu 66M
495 posts
7/4/2019 9:12 am

An hour for the first time, BUT if it is good sex and a second time is wanted I'd go a half day travel.

fun4me2find 54M
8 posts
7/4/2019 8:51 am

I voted half a day...but think an hour for a first time weekend....repeat meetings be willing to go farther

OldrHarleyGuy 67M  
475 posts
7/4/2019 7:28 am

Voted on half a day, but then, distance thing has never worked out for me for the most part. Have had a couple of encounters with the distance being over three hundred miles. Both were with fabulous partners, but then with work and obligations getting in the way most of the time, it just didn't work out. Would be willing to try it again sometime though and with the right partner if possible.

LatinoStud2020 27M
18 posts
7/4/2019 6:03 am

I’d drive from 1-3 hours or possibly all day if the sex was worth it!

Havnfn1971 53M
7 posts
7/4/2019 5:54 am

I may not have picked up on this as I spent more time viewing your pic than reading the question LOL.. As written, if I KNEW I was going to have sex with a woman I liked, I'd go up to 3 hours or so. To meet a member for the first time, I'd limit to an hour since it is fraught with risk of the woman not being who she says, old pics, or maybe the risk of her not liking me after I travel so far. Because of this, I don't see how I would actually know hot woman so far away

ynot57755 61M
38 posts
7/4/2019 4:20 am


ynot57755 61M
38 posts
7/4/2019 4:18 am

I would love to be able to travel, what ever it takes. Enter the real world. Work 60+ hours a week and with bridges and tolls cashless. It makes so hard to move about discreetly. Yes like most men here (50-75 I am married.

espinete_2011 41M
28 posts
7/4/2019 12:23 am

I don't have a long of time

jolielaide 47F
466 posts
7/3/2019 9:21 pm

    Quoting 1Hemiguy1:
    Forgot to mention nice profile picture btw. 😉 If your on kick Catman2 we could chat

i forgot the question bc i was looking at the profile pic too

dwz5234 66M  
165 posts
7/3/2019 2:52 pm

well i flew to montana. another time i drove all day

Mark35169 41M
51 posts
7/3/2019 2:30 pm

I've driven 450 miles

JMFuckon 58M  
35 posts
7/3/2019 6:24 am

To meet you, I would go as far as I have to!!

FortFun1018 71M  
15 posts
7/3/2019 5:43 am

3 hour flight. 5 hour drive. Was worth every minute. Planning 4th meeting now.

binlate123 64M  
5 posts
7/3/2019 5:23 am

How ever long it take to meet you for dinner!!!

snowey8 64F  
105 posts
7/2/2019 11:57 pm

yep an hour drive

jrinco 62M  
87 posts
7/2/2019 11:22 pm

I've driven 3 hours one way several was worth it every time.

wantyoufucked 54M
21 posts
7/2/2019 10:40 pm

Up to 2 hours maximum

caleliyan 56M
15 posts
7/2/2019 8:49 pm

Distance no problem for me!

fwb_n_nwa 53M  
33 posts
7/2/2019 3:06 pm

If it is the right person ... distance would not be an issue. I would drive an hour or fly if needed.

BolivarMOuy 47M
24 posts
7/2/2019 11:40 am

If it's for the weekend and not just the day or night, I think half of a day is acceptable. If it's just for the one day or night an hour or two is more reasonable.

I am what I am because it is what I am.

hrlyridr87 65M  
295 posts
7/2/2019 10:05 am

I like to travel, see new places and meet new people. I would drive half a day to a whole day for a meet with the right lady.

1Hemiguy1 57M
136 posts
7/2/2019 9:23 am

Forgot to mention nice profile picture btw. 😉 If your on kick Catman2 we could chat

1Hemiguy1 57M
136 posts
7/2/2019 8:55 am

I travel quite a bit for work driving so if it's I'm my territory I'd drive to meet up. If it meant for a weekend or evenings together during the week.

Elementalfling 35M
13 posts
7/2/2019 7:53 am

An hour or an hour and a half max.

BobbyM36608 60M  
55 posts
7/2/2019 5:20 am

I'd definitely drive a day, for a weekend of good sex!

RavenGB 58M
862 posts
7/2/2019 2:05 am

I think that to meet anybody distant, you'd need to be going there anyway. When you have sanity restored to your domestic politics, I might visit the States to see some of the natural marvels of your country. If I was in contact wth somebody close to my itinarary, I'd be happy to meet for drinks/dinner and take it from there. It is almost impossible to know what somebody is like in person from a virtual interaction, so for both parties, walking away must be possible - to do this after somebody has spent a lot of time and money travelling would be awkward.

Apart from you, what natural wonders does northern Michigan offer ?

redned1963 55M  
58 posts
7/1/2019 7:57 pm

I think the longer the distance the less likely it will
be a repeat

mffdvr57 57M  
3 posts
7/1/2019 6:55 pm

I live in the middle of nowhere, I pretty much have to drive a minimum of 2-3 hours to get to anyone but it doesn't really bother me.

TokenBlackChik 33F  
48 posts
7/1/2019 6:20 pm

My experience with TV TS Dating males has taught me that anyone more than an hour away is very likely to be a one night/day stand so I don't waste my time on people who aren't local.

OofuncoupleoO 50M
17 posts
7/1/2019 6:01 pm

I flew half way across the country. Brought her back with me. Going on ten years now ❤️

AyneAlAngus 54M

7/1/2019 4:53 pm

I have lots and lots and lots of time. Say when. LOL No, really.

laughwithsinners 57M  
7 posts
7/1/2019 4:08 pm

I think about an hour but even then it depends if I can get the time off

LetFuck204 32M
20 posts
7/1/2019 4:05 pm

If I could get time off work and get a decent plane ticket, I would consider flying.

Luking4129 45F  
166 posts
7/1/2019 3:21 pm

I think it depends on the situation.

Leegs2012 46M
41593 posts
7/1/2019 12:21 pm

Only locals

lucasteel78 40M
62 posts
7/1/2019 11:51 am

yes locals mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

69ereatwetpussy 57M
2526 posts
7/1/2019 11:26 am

For a weekend i'ld travel half a day. for a few hours a hour drive.

jajo696 64F
489 posts
7/1/2019 10:49 am

Im interested in ongoing, therefore, its gotta be only local for me.~~

allnitelong2063 55M
156 posts
7/1/2019 9:57 am

I vote a hour!

I_willoralu 44M
1160 posts
7/1/2019 9:34 am

If I really enjoy her company I would go as far as it takes.

tw04fun330 41M/35F
8 posts
7/1/2019 9:03 am

We are willing to travel for the right people

Showyouinsac 45M
37 posts
7/1/2019 8:27 am

If it’s good I’d fly

matureman004 38M
50 posts
7/1/2019 7:48 am

i am willing to drive for date

Azbear1969 50M  
48 posts
7/1/2019 7:30 am

Would easily drive up to a few hours away which I have done in the past.

aimtoplease1033 58M
43 posts
7/1/2019 7:16 am

I once dated a very Hot girl from Massilon Ohio (3-4hr drive) She definitely made it worth the trip when I got there

Dodahsux 62M  
3 posts
7/1/2019 7:06 am

Would drive 2-3 hrs for a weekend if its a sure thing. Been stood up to often by locals to take a chance on much more than that.

txmature2 65M
1019 posts
7/1/2019 5:17 am

I once did a 2 1/2 hour trip... it was worth it!

funsnellvillecpl 62M/50F  
1773 posts
7/1/2019 4:28 am

We once drove 135 miles to meet someone and got stood up, thats after they pursued us for months . So now we limit it to an hr or maybe a lil more ,

Userneeded 30M

7/1/2019 3:53 am

More so only locals, but if im traveling for work for examlle then where ever i am.

48jenny 65T
33 posts
7/1/2019 3:46 am

If one clicks distance for me isn't a problem.

66hardandready9 35M
4 posts
6/30/2019 11:22 pm

distance isnt a big deal when meeting a matched mind set

passingthrough98 64M  
7 posts
6/30/2019 11:18 pm

would depend on the date and what was going on. I would drive 3 to 4 hours for the right weekend fun

gdguygil2 56M
20 posts
6/30/2019 10:58 pm

Each situation is different, but closer to home is better.

stjois 53M  
1 post
6/30/2019 8:38 pm

I'm always traveling for work so a half day drive is nothing. I would fly if I felt she was going to be special.

Nicolecd1966 52T
20 posts
6/30/2019 8:18 pm

I have went as far as 3 hours, but that was for bringing in the New Year. So I voted for the hour, though 2 hours isn't to bad either. I haven't traveled below the bridge where you are yet, but have had offers!!

Superman4695 34M
113 posts
6/30/2019 7:22 pm

For a whole weekend if I find her hot and it was guaranteed I might drive about 500 miles. I'd have to be quite sure about the situation to invest that much time and $$$ (gas isn't cheap these days). Mostly 200 miles would be my limit. She'd have to be worth the extra

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384 posts
6/30/2019 7:21 pm

I have driven for over 10 hours to met for a 3 day weekend of sex. It was not a one time thing for I have made that trip several times in the past years. We still keep in touch.Those weekends were fantastic sexual pleasures.

Shawomeguy 44M
40 posts
6/30/2019 7:10 pm

Depending on the quality of the destination!

gentlelovrjust4u 61M  
26 posts
6/30/2019 7:03 pm

I am not really interested in one time flings. I would drive a couple of hours to meet with someone that might be interested in a semi regular get together though

Stevvebm69 56M
8 posts
6/30/2019 11:56 am

I have flown cross country for a hookup. Was worth the trip. No I go twice a year. It’s for “work” after all. Lol

Blueyedguy823 52M
89 posts
6/30/2019 7:48 am

I have flown to meet someone. They were in a cool place so I figured if it was a complete bust I could go distract myself with other things. BUT... usually with an hour or two is the preferred travel time.

CleavageFan4U 62M  
57610 posts
6/30/2019 6:29 am

I once drove 7 hours for a 3 day weekend. But she was a blogger-babe that I "knew" even though we'd never met, so it wasn't all that risky.

We were joking about how long it would take us to get nekkid after meeting, so I changed the game by greeting her at the hotel room door nekkid - YUP, the first time she saw me in person I was totally nekkid!

Our three day weekend ultimately turned in to four.

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dell9600 62M  
639 posts
6/30/2019 6:23 am

My lady and I live a 3 hr drive apart. Kinda sucks sometimes, but we do really enjoy our time together when we get to see each other.

candylicker_6t9 57M
308 posts
6/30/2019 5:19 am

If it's truly glorious I'll sail the seven seas.

seems6666 48F
2224 posts
6/30/2019 5:15 am

I voted for an hour, a hour and a half max. Then if the meet isn't that great, you can get away quick!!

dogslife2live01 67M
803 posts
6/30/2019 5:01 am

usually half hour...but for you i would go to the far ends of the earth

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Shyguynyc5 42M
23 posts
6/30/2019 4:40 am

Here in New York ,especially Long Island ... a hr is still kinda local .

backpocket13 42M
7656 posts
6/30/2019 4:32 am

Hey Chill,
.........I try to stay as local as possible if I decide to meet with someone, which is seldom,.........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13

sexyldy1000 58F  
3265 posts
6/30/2019 4:31 am

When mutual desire and interest exists, distance has never been an issue

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.

avg_nice_guy 52M  
185 posts
6/30/2019 3:58 am

living alone with a dog makes getting away for anything impossible lolol

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6/30/2019 3:49 am

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