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Safety is the key when looking for a Dominant
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Safety is the key when looking for a Dominant It's never been easy to find someone safe to play with when you delve into the kink arena and it's getting worse and worse. For every one guy that is a legitimate Dominant looking for a sub there is five predator's using your need to serve as a way to find his next victim and for that very reason there are steps you need to take to assure yourself that you will be safe in your search. Before we get to the actual meeting I am going to give you a short list of things to look for that are instant red flags or signs he is looking to violate your consent. Most are pretty easy to spot. 1) If within the first two or three messages he demands that you him sir or master. If he take's his title seriously then he understands he has to earn your submission rather than demand it. 2) If he only want's to meet you at a motel. First he's probably married and the wife knows nothing about his TV TS Dating and there is no second. Most predators in this lifestyle tend to always want to meet at a motel. 3) If he wants to play with you without knowing your hard limits then run bitch run. Don't let anyone ever tell you that you don't have a right to say no to anything. A hard limit is something you won't do such as scat. A good dominant won't mind playing within your limitations. 4) This one will probably cause a debate but if he doesn't have one single pic on his TV TS Dating then be very leary. Some will say it's because they want discretion because of a career and that's valid but they could still send you a pic in a private message. I don't the discretion crap because they are on a site dealing with a lot of kinks to begin with and Suzy christian isn't going to be on TV TS Dating. Looking for the red flags will many predators but not all so now it's time to go through my safety 1 list. and if you follow it like a law you will more than likely get the rest of those dick heads of your world. 1) Always set up that first meeting in public with well lit parking areas and plenty of people around with security cameras also in use such as eateries and the like. Cockroaches like the dark remember. 2) Ask them for a copy of their ID. Yes some will throw a major fit but this is your life on the line. Have this with you and make sure they like the picture. 3) set up a safety with a close friend. Make sure your friend has a copy as well of his ID and know's exactly where you are going. They will you a specified time and if you don't answer they will contact the authorities with the ID you gave them a copy of and where you were going. It's a simple three step system that if you remember my slogan will allow you to finally delve into your deepest fantasy's without the fear. My slogan isn't hard to remember but sometimes hard to follow but well worth it in the end. DON'T GO ANYWHERE AFTER THAT MEETING WITH THEM. going to be straight with you and say most predator's don't want to put a ton of effort into getting you alone but some might be willing to go through with the meeting on your terms thinking that maybe they can get you to leave there and go where they can violate your consent. If you for the red flags and stay the course on the three step safety list and of course remember the motto you will be safe and that's your one objective. Until I write again, Your Loving Dom. Play safe.  |
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This is common sense for any relationship. Safety y first always , there are predators of both sexes here.
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Good advice for any type of hookup
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