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Assorted thoughts about being a slut.  

Daddys_Girl209 52M/29F
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5/16/2019 9:28 pm
Assorted thoughts about being a slut.


It's hard to "get into" sluttiness when you were raised with semi-strict ideas about romance and commitment and the sheer excruciating impossibility of finding The Exact Right Person for you. There's no manual for how to abruptly fool around with a bunch of people. Okay, correction: there are lots of manuals, but they're about ethics and logistics, rather than about relaxing and being okay with the sheer straightforwardness of wanting to mash somebody else's .

It's been a slow process for , and one still not totally comfortable talking about. Partly that's because I worry that committing major ethics crimes by finding people attractive and interesting and fun and still not immediately pledging lifelong devotion to them. more-or-less convinced gonna fuck things up some point, somehow, which is either anxiety talking or the simple fact that most of the time, learning how to be good at something means being bad at all of it first.

It's amazing how rewarding other people are to me.

I get so much of every individual I do things with. I remember feeling when I was , that there were only so many things you might get of a relationship, sexual or otherwise. Wow was I wrong? I have yet to find an upper limit for where I start finding every person I play with precious, and starting to doubt whether or not one exists.

learning to be okay with not being everybody's cup of tea.

One reason sluttiness works for is that, when with a single person, acutely aware of all the ways in which not entirely perfect for them. I start worrying that letting them down—or worrying that they'll leave . Having more people in my life somehow lets me appreciate the things I am to people, without so much worrying about what not.

I can no longer casually flip through my phone's photos in public places.

So many tits and dicks. Sorry, Mom.
HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
5/16/2019 9:45 pm

 nice post


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
5/17/2019 8:54 am

 There's really no doubt why this works so well.Where you draw your confidence
and are able to live in the moment.Being a married couple certainly changes the whole dynamic of following a natural progression of events in finding "the exact right person". I'm not sure if worrying about "committing major ethics crimes"
is a sales pitch or a rather obvious contradiction.
Using more than all the road!


massageug00d 62M
41 posts
6/1/2019 10:59 am

 Nice post. Some food for thought


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