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Cumsnackme 43M
2 posts
8/3/2019 12:31 am

I love reading your Blogs. Sexy angel

sexyldy1000 58F  
3478 posts
8/3/2019 12:55 am

No matter how inane or inappropriate, I too used to feel obliged to respond back to every message. I am much more discerning now.

Stimulate my mind and the possibilities are endless.

YourFinancer 39M
15 posts
8/3/2019 12:55 am

nice read

Imthatgirl1122 38F
893 posts
8/3/2019 12:57 am

I face the same problem. I stop replying message now.

PnPnaked 41M
10 posts
8/3/2019 1:21 am

Love reading your Blogs keep it up

Cumsnackme 43M
2 posts
8/3/2019 1:46 am

I can't read your profile sorry

blueska16 24M
2 posts
8/3/2019 1:55 am

Yeah sometimes the best of manners can get tiring. I know I wouldn't be able to take it if I got anywhere near as many messages as I'm sure you get.

2Saltie2 62F  
1506 posts
8/3/2019 2:02 am

I think all of us women get messages from men who don't read our profiles and men to. I get ones from men who fit NONE of what I require. Couples which I have not checked off as seeking. PLUS not meeting at this time means nothing to some. Same as the I don't use the im. It isn't rude not to answer. Spam mail it is to me. I now report all messages as spam. That gets them deleted and blocked.

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proteus_2a 53M
7327 posts
8/3/2019 2:12 am

You're asking too much from someone typing one handed my lady ….

Cheers - P

29 posts
8/3/2019 2:29 am


Luv2Smilex69 36M
11 posts
8/3/2019 2:47 am

I know right, being PC is overrated

SofiaMc 33F  
43 posts
8/3/2019 2:53 am

So true. I "forgive" the standard members who IM-ed me. But question the Gold members who have full access to my profile.

Naturally, I block when they're not in the same country or even remotely close to what I'm looking for.

Men in general, don't read profiles.

They ogle at photos and vids and start chatting up.

jajo696 64F
643 posts
8/3/2019 2:55 am

I still respond to i realize that we all cant read profiles. Im sure i dont get as many emails as you do...cuz i only have words in my profile. So...its a series of simple one liners. " No thank you", " im not looking, just here to blog", " I see your married , no thanks " " Did i ask to see your appendage, no thatnks " Yup....its tiring for sure...but i politely say something. Even in prone to say., " is that your version of a....hello?, no thanks"....then i ignore them if they persist. There are all kinds just hoping that weeding thru the weeds, there is a gem in there for us all. ~~

superbjversion2 64F  
16589 posts
8/3/2019 4:33 am

It's frustrating. I know that. But instead of getting upset about it, think of it as men being so overwhelmed with the vision before them that all ability to comprehend the written word is lost.

You can always use auto reply to say you won't answer emails from men outside your preference. That way you can delete without guilt.

I still reply to all my emails but I don't get very many since I don't have any sexy photos on my profile.

I put the sex in sexagenarian

jolielaide 47F  
580 posts
8/3/2019 4:35 am

if someone takes the time, i do my best to reply back. and i have to agree with jajo. however, i lead with the positive first, "thank you but no". lol!! and i will stop with the politeness if someone is being a douche or showing signs of stalkerish behavior.

zoomfluke5 51M
9 posts
8/3/2019 4:57 am

cumsnackme...what a pretty dick you have

Msmealsonheels 25F  
509 posts
8/3/2019 5:56 am

Well, it's a lot of trouble to read profiles when your running through profile listings sending as many messages as you can - hoping even one woman will answer...

It would be much better (For him) if you would just address any possible issues in your response to him...


CleavageFan4U 62M  
58075 posts
8/3/2019 6:58 am

Yeah, I understand, and it does make it harder for you ladies to sort through and find the emails from genuinely promising members.

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scoupe42 56M  
6735 posts
8/3/2019 7:44 am

Your doing right, being direct and straight to the point.

FresnoWoman 48F
491 posts
8/3/2019 10:07 am

Even as a standard member, I was able to read this much by hovering over your avatar: "Would like to meet a SINGLE man who’s close to my age and open to long term if the chemistry is right. Not into multi" Plus I saw the bit about you wanting someone fairly local, etc.

That didn't take very much trouble on my part. Men just need to TRY to read a little bit instead of assuming that because they like what they see, the other person will like them too. It's nice of you to understand we can't see much but I think all my fellow standard members should make an effort too.

Anyway, if an IM request pops up and I can see they're not my desired age range or local enough, I just dismiss it without answering. If they don't go away after two or three tries, then I'll block.

pocogato12 67F  
27788 posts
8/3/2019 11:44 am

Being succinct is the best policy and you have done it in spades without being overbearing and rude. You need to get a thicker skin and just delete them or ignore them. I only use the block feature when they are crude and nasty

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Tmptrzz 56F  
62244 posts
8/3/2019 2:00 pm

amen hun you tell them, I totally agree with you here. I hope your enjoying a great weekend.

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!

lonlyforlove2 76M  
2277 posts
8/3/2019 3:49 pm

Young lady, it is your profile; it is your place, if people can't respect any part of it , do the block and delete with out a second thought Any one with a bit of intelligence would know to look before you leap, may not be no water in dat pool !!!! No apologizes needed, if they cant be an adult, send them down the tube..

Have a good day, and hope your next driving exam turns out a smother cruise..

misskissin 55F  
79078 posts
8/4/2019 6:53 am

It's all about effort... it always is.

RandeeC 60M
1 post
8/4/2019 7:37 pm

lol,..say it again,.!! The real disappointment is those who need to hear it,...won't be coming to the blog read.

I do get rather annoyed when I get the notification someone has messaged me,....actually I get rather excited for a great connection,...then to be let down by someone who hasn't read the profile,....or at the very least didn't comprehend it!! lol [ and my profile is rather vague!! Go figure ]

easydate__ 55M
43 posts
8/8/2019 9:13 am

I never contact someone without reading their profile. Pointless.

fashionablegma 76F
6235 posts
8/12/2019 9:32 am

I just thank them and state that it seems they have their wires crossed if they think we are a match,like to be open and honest as I would expect them to be

pussyplzr75 40F  
15 posts
8/14/2019 6:57 pm

I love the way u think!!!

swman2 51M
9 posts
8/19/2019 2:40 pm

Do people ever read a profile ?

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