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tryusfororal2019 67M/57F
134 posts
9/30/2019 9:35 am

Yes, friends come in handy


a_42n81 52M

9/30/2019 9:39 am

Absolutely....all the time!


scott6250 61M

9/30/2019 9:48 am

I have mostly female friends and have since high school.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


SmoothYoungManX 38M
28 posts
9/30/2019 9:53 am

everyone needs a good loyal reliable friend


Timetraveler2 60M  
159 posts
9/30/2019 9:53 am

I guess that I am the exception and not the rule. I have more female friends than male, and my closest friend is also female. We have known each other since we were in high school, and have stayed in touch ever since. Granted we had a "relationship" for about a year and half, but even when that ended we stayed extremely close. I have also "met" several women online, both here, and back in the old school AOL chat rooms that I close friends with. Some I have met in person, others I have only had contact with on the internet, but I know that I would be there for them if they needed me, and they would do the same for me. With some there is a sexual attraction, and with others there is none, but it does not mean that we are more or less of friends.

If a man says that he cannot be "just friends" with a woman, then there is something wrong with him. I would not trade the friendships that I have developed over the years with these ladies for anything.


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
9/30/2019 10:03 am

Your *friend's* contention has no basis in science. To the contrary, it reflects a profound (and terrifying) depth of ignorance and/or misogyny. Indeed, the real question is: from what delusional *faux-reality* did the need to verbalize such harassment originate?

My speculation is that it comes from a simmering sexual frustration and sense of inadequacy, not to mention a lack of self-control. My experience has been that as my sexuality became linked to deeper, more intimate relationships, my *desire* to have sex with every woman I encountered tempered. Much in the same way I morphed into a *wine snob*: once I tasted a mind-blowing varietal, the palate becomes more discriminatory.

Yes, we all have deep-seated sexual urges. But as intelligent and sentient creatures, we may not be able to control our emotions, but we can certainly control our actions....including the verbalization of such garbage to other humans.


bttmnsatx1 58M

9/30/2019 10:05 am

We can be friends. It is usually just the male ego blurting out when it comes to that answer.

In my life time, I have found that a female friend is someone that I could confide in more so than a lot of males. Opposites attract?

There is someone in my life now that I am trying to be the best friend for. Difficult when they have a lifetime of trust issues to overcome. Many obstacles for that, but if it developed further, fine. If not, fine. Just trying to be there for her.

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I_willoralu 49M
1684 posts
9/30/2019 10:08 am

I'm a man and I say they can. I have females that I'm just friends with. And yes they are attractive lol. It is harder to do the more attractive they are but still possible

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jorjh44mc 38M
5 posts
9/30/2019 10:08 am

never ever


Mr00Fun4U 64M

9/30/2019 10:19 am

Yes I believe they can and I still have some Women ((they were Girls)) when I was in High School. they do reach out to me every once and awhile...when we do want to smile.

In fact I have made a few wonderful Friends from this site. Life just doesn't get any better.

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mickeyd1251 72M
58 posts
9/30/2019 10:48 am

I have several female friends two are my ex wifes.


MrRareity 64M  
4589 posts
9/30/2019 10:56 am

Yes men and woman can be friends and not be in a sexual relationship. One of my best friends is a woman. We are great friends but that's it.

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
9/30/2019 11:07 am

From the female perspective I have two male friends that started out from here. They were sexual fun in the beginning and as the friendship grew the urge to be physical kinda waned and we went our separate ways. But we are still long term friends and the benefits are now supportive, emotional, rational and the physical no longer matters as we all have moved forward . One of them was the recipient of the horror from March( Joy you know) and I truly found out what deep friendship we have nurtured. The other one still remains in touch as he is across the country.Distance matters not

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tjune25653 58M

9/30/2019 11:13 am

nice


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
9/30/2019 11:20 am

If I can be friends with a man... I can be friends with a woman. Friendship is about caring for another person, TRULY caring about their feelings their happiness


astute2r3 68M

9/30/2019 11:46 am

The "Scientifically Speaking" part of the first sentence, where it is noted that Men answer NO, has some issues, based on what you have accumulated within this blog. I would say that "There Is" an obvious number of males whom can have women friends (and women have male friends) and not be sexual with each one of them. I would suggest that the Science by which the information was acquired in making this determination about NO for men, is inaccurate. Just Saying


FBWC342 52M
446 posts
9/30/2019 12:26 pm

I think it's entirely possible. It's just that for some guys, it can take a bit of work on their part and clear communication on both sides to get to that point.

Personally speaking, I think being able to be friends with someone of the opposite sex is an essential first step for any long-term relationship to work. And no, I don't mean using friendship as a stepping stone for becoming romantically involved. Friendship is one of the most basic forms of relationships, and if you can't be friends with someone of the opposite sex then pursuing anything more than that is going to be a rough haul.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/30/2019 12:27 pm

Happy Monday my friend and HELL yes women and men can just be friends I know because I have many men friends. I hope your day is a great start to your week..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/30/2019 12:56 pm

I don't discriminate when it comes to choosing friends. Male.. female... I have equally few of either...
A lot of acquaintances though... Quite a few. Tons... But that's not the same, right?


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
9/30/2019 2:57 pm

I agree with Time Traveler, I have always been able to make friends with girls/women, never had a fear of them that is instilled in little boys in such a cruel manner as is still done! And have many female friends. I also have managed to remain friends with several women I had sex/relationships with too, in many case decades or more after our sexual fun ended.
Now male friends, I can count on one hand. And never had more than 3 or 4 at a time anytime in my life ! I have always intimidated men by my ease with women, something many men never achieve.


Farling1 68M
1379 posts
9/30/2019 3:30 pm

You always have well thought out and interesting topics and points of view .... so much so that I rarely can say anything more except to agree...... I agree ...BUT I still always find myself falling for the women even so.... I never act on it unless there is some obvious signs.... Since it hasnt happened I always hold to the friendship and handle all interfaces with the respect they deserve ....

~Farl


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/30/2019 3:52 pm

Men and women cannot JUST be friends. She Friendzones him. A woman who friendzones a man, is not a woman being a mans friend.
The women I am friends with, we have sex. Fwb, is a true female friend.

Unlike children, before puberty, adult males would never approach a woman for anything long term if he was not sexually attracted to her.

Typical reasoning women say to men: "If we have sex, that will ruin the friendship".

No. What any woman is really saying: "If we have sex, that will ruin [for me] getting your attention for free".

In my opinion, a woman who will not have sex with you, is not really your friend.

Are there exceptions? Yes. "Old men and women", and "Gay men". Since "Old" can be subjective, I'll let you figure when "Old" happens. But once "Old" sets in, me lose their testosterone - no more sex drive, and women go through menopause, many lose interest in having sex.
"Gay men" [bisexual counts as gay] he'll be woman's friend, no problem.

All the men saying, "You can be friends", are , by their own admission, gay [looking for men and women sex], and all are over age 45. So they have lowering or zero'd out testosterone levels, so sex is no longer a priority.

So can men and women just be friends? NO!! Under normal healthy circumstances, he will want to have sex with the woman.
If he is friendzoned and doesn't walk away [because someone shamed him into always being a nice guy], he stays close hoping one day she will change her mind and have sex with him. Of course the woman will tell him about the men she's going out with , and ask for advice, and he'll put on the , "Big brother/protector" , act ....still hoping he can one day get his cock sucked.

I prefer to be an asshole. I don't approach women to be her friend, first. Women are for sex. So, If a woman says, "If we have sex that will ruin the friendship".... I tell her to get lost.

Even you have said , "They want to have sex, but I said no". They didn't walk away, so you "Friendzoned" them. But I guarantee you , if you go up to any of them and whisper in his hear, "I want to suck your cock".... he will drop his pants.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/30/2019 3:59 pm

    Quoting  :

No... If there is no more testosterone, or very low testosterone there can be no sex.
No, it isn't complicated at all, if she is really your friend. A woman tells you being friends after sex will be complicated , because she is not interested in seeing you naked at all... the woman just wants your attention for free.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/30/2019 4:01 pm

    Quoting  :

Chances are she has a reputation of putting out. Word gets around and guess what.


berniek60 67M

9/30/2019 4:48 pm

I have quite a few female friends, some I have dated and been intimate with. One was introduced to a male friend they married. Two others had married as well as my ex, that I am good friends with their current husbands. They have no problem with me. But a couple female friends say I can not be friends with ex's or old girl friends because they still want to be more than just friends with me.


BigJerk5 48M
104 posts
9/30/2019 5:12 pm

yes, I think so. I do have female friends that im attracted to or was in the past and we are friends now... even some that we explored the attraction and are now great friends. I do have some interest based female friends too. ITs possible for certain. at least for me.


Golly06 71M
1932 posts
9/30/2019 6:24 pm

Friends without sex? Sure. Maybe they are married or there are other reasons where sex is not a good idea, or maybe they are just really cool to hang with.and sex is not important. It can be fun to have a flirtatious relationship when both know that sex is not going to happen. And if it happens unexpectedly, c'est la vie. I will take a good friend over average sex any day.


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
9/30/2019 7:17 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Men and women cannot JUST be friends. She Friendzones him. A woman who friendzones a man, is not a woman being a mans friend.
    The women I am friends with, we have sex. Fwb, is a true female friend.

    Unlike children, before puberty, adult males would never approach a woman for anything long term if he was not sexually attracted to her.

    Typical reasoning women say to men: "If we have sex, that will ruin the friendship".

    No. What any woman is really saying: "If we have sex, that will ruin [for me] getting your attention for free".

    In my opinion, a woman who will not have sex with you, is not really your friend.

    Are there exceptions? Yes. "Old men and women", and "Gay men". Since "Old" can be subjective, I'll let you figure when "Old" happens. But once "Old" sets in, me lose their testosterone - no more sex drive, and women go through menopause, many lose interest in having sex.
    "Gay men" [bisexual counts as gay] he'll be woman's friend, no problem.

    All the men saying, "You can be friends", are , by their own admission, gay [looking for men and women sex], and all are over age 45. So they have lowering or zero'd out testosterone levels, so sex is no longer a priority.

    So can men and women just be friends? NO!! Under normal healthy circumstances, he will want to have sex with the woman.
    If he is friendzoned and doesn't walk away [because someone shamed him into always being a nice guy], he stays close hoping one day she will change her mind and have sex with him. Of course the woman will tell him about the men she's going out with , and ask for advice, and he'll put on the , "Big brother/protector" , act ....still hoping he can one day get his cock sucked.

    I prefer to be an asshole. I don't approach women to be her friend, first. Women are for sex. So, If a woman says, "If we have sex that will ruin the friendship".... I tell her to get lost.

    Even you have said , "They want to have sex, but I said no". They didn't walk away, so you "Friendzoned" them. But I guarantee you , if you go up to any of them and whisper in his hear, "I want to suck your cock".... he will drop his pants.
Labeling all men gay because they have women as just friends is demented and it sounds like talking points coming from extreme conservatism. I have women who I have had sex with that are still my good friends and women that I've never had sex with that are my good friends.

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
9/30/2019 8:44 pm

Hi Joy

thanks for taking me further with the "friends" question

I've always said that once I know you in the biblical sense, I'm not knowing you in the "friend" sense

that's just the way it's been with my lovers

I'm sure it works for others, but, not for me

reminded me of this

John Hiatt - "What Do We Do Now"

What do we do now
What do we do now

When it's lying there with a busted heart
Like a piece of glass where do you start
Do we pick it up or say goodbye
Is there one tear left for us to cry

What if I can't stay
What if you can't stay
What if I can't leave
What if you can't leave

What if I believed
Every word you say
What if you believed
Until today

Do we call the kids
Or call the cops
Can you hold me 'till
This howling stops

What do we do now
What do we do now

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sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/30/2019 10:55 pm

Of course men and women can have platonic friendships. I think it's quite normal and healthy.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/1/2019 12:31 am

    Quoting pacnwlover42:
    Labeling all men gay because they have women as just friends is demented and it sounds like talking points coming from extreme conservatism. I have women who I have had sex with that are still my good friends and women that I've never had sex with that are my good friends.
Labeling all men gay because they have women as just friends is demented .... You got over excited ... that's not exactly what I said.

I have women who I have had sex with that are still my good friends.... That was one of my points.... and those women are actually your friend. The women who don't want to have sex with you, but want you to be her friend, she's telling you, "I want us to be friends, but I don't want to know all about you, but listen to me while I tell you all about me".

and women that I've never had sex with that are my good friends. ....Not exactly your "Good friends".. She has you friendzoned. She says, come over, lets visit, lets hangout, wanna go shopping with me, can I pick your brain about what this hot guy means when he says...... " ...etc... If she was your friend, she would at least give you a handjob.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/1/2019 12:37 am

    Quoting  :

ha... Kindergarten [and still around after puberty] and High School friendships are a sure thing, if you whisper in their hear about having a blowjob. They too will go for it.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/1/2019 1:50 am

    Quoting  :

So men and women , healthy men and women, cannot be just friends. Not in the true sense of friendship between a man and a woman. Knowing each other completely. Sex is just one more dimension to the person. When this dimension is included men and women are fwb's. An expression that basically means, "I am friends with this person and I know them completely".

Your use of "Choice" is just another way of you saying , "I don't want to see you naked, if we have sex that will ruin the friendship".... in a way, you're telling your male friends, "You can fuck me, and I'll leave, or you can masturbate in your room thinking about me, and I'll stay".

So unless your male friends are 100% homosexuals, or depleted of their testosterone, you really can't say men and women can be just friends.


anastasia666 45F
2231 posts
10/1/2019 3:57 am

Joy,

Happy Tues My Twin Hope all is well. Very interesting blog post & I've enjoyed most of the well thought out replies.

I have always had very close male friends, stayed close/friendly with ex's..When my ex fiance & I split, ex's stepped forward to cheer me up and tell me the world will keep turning & keep my spirits up..These were ex's I broke up with but stayed friendly with..My Sugar Daddy was my Best friend before we decided to take a chance on being together. For Us, it has worked.

I LOVE all my friends and am grateful for the love & life they share with me..I am super close to some male friends, more so then with most of my female squad/friends..

I think men and women can be friends but if the sex issue is brought up that if everyone can handle it, be intimate and stay friends, then that is real friendship right there ..Same with if both parties choose to remain just friends without sex.

Happy Tasty Tues Hugs,

Ana6



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He made me pretty
He made me smart


njfitguy1 61M
555 posts
10/1/2019 4:42 am

Some of my very best friends are women. We help each other out, I babysit sometimes. I can count on them for help and vice versa.
Some of those friends are like family to me. I would not change a thing.


Imthatgirl1122 42F
1835 posts
10/1/2019 12:14 pm

Most of my friends are male. Not sure why.. some say that i need to be born as a man lol. I have only 2 girl friends in my life.


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
10/1/2019 4:50 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Labeling all men gay because they have women as just friends is demented .... You got over excited ... that's not exactly what I said.

    I have women who I have had sex with that are still my good friends.... That was one of my points.... and those women are actually your friend. The women who don't want to have sex with you, but want you to be her friend, she's telling you, "I want us to be friends, but I don't want to know all about you, but listen to me while I tell you all about me".

    and women that I've never had sex with that are my good friends. ....Not exactly your "Good friends".. She has you friendzoned. She says, come over, lets visit, lets hangout, wanna go shopping with me, can I pick your brain about what this hot guy means when he says...... " ...etc... If she was your friend, she would at least give you a handjob.
Sure thing...whatever you say...😱

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
10/1/2019 6:01 pm

single or marred
friends are friends
if one keeps it none sexual just to hang out ,talk , watch sports, movies.
nothing wrong with that.
yet people will always have it in the back of their head sex will come up.
this the age old ? can man and woman be only friends.
yet Men and men ,woman and woman and with out ever having sex with each other.
I have woman that are friends we can keep it non sexual and the wife is fine with it.


Imthatgirl1122 42F
1835 posts
10/2/2019 8:59 am

I am so glad as well... hugssss


Theseo00 48M
163 posts
10/2/2019 3:17 pm

As far as there is no sexual attraction


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
10/2/2019 4:56 pm

Of course men and women can be friends. It doesn't mean you have to get the benefits to go with it.


grneye9876 56M

10/3/2019 5:18 pm

Yes. I don’t see an issue with this


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/3/2019 6:29 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Of course men and women can be friends. It doesn't mean you have to get the benefits to go with it.
Of course men and women can be friends. When he's gay/transgender or has zero testosterone [no more interest in sex].
But, the question was , "Can men and women be Just friends.

And the answer is, "No".


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/4/2019 2:18 am

EDITOR'S NOTE : The men who truly believe men and women can not be friends have a narrow mind and still objectify a woman based on being female.. ....

Men and women can be friends.... when he's gay or a tranny, .. sure, these blokes can be friends with girls because they have NO SEX DRIVE for the woman.
Likewise when straight men lose their sex drive, low-T, then he's stuck being just friends with the woman. But the straight old guy will still think about what she'd be like naked and sucking him off.

The young virile straight male, he has lead in his penis for women. Can he be just friends with a woman? No. If he finds just one woman sexually attractive, that means men cannot be just friends with women.

Yes, I'll be writing about this; men being just friends with women, nonsense on my blog soon enough.


FunaroundTowson 45M

10/4/2019 4:58 am

absolutely men and women can be just friends. I have a good number of female friends and I have yet to think of them in a sexual way.


hogknot 57M
1059 posts
10/4/2019 7:41 am

Like most of the responses I have female friends. Purely platonic relationships. The other part of your question about wanting "more" is true in my case


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/4/2019 4:45 pm

    Quoting hogknot:
    Like most of the responses I have female friends. Purely platonic relationships. The other part of your question about wanting "more" is true in my case
This is an example of what I mean by , "Men and women cannot be JUST friends"..... A man eventually wants "More".

When a man allows a woman into his circle of friends , and he's straight, there's a natural reason she even showed up on his radar.... and that is attractions, which inevitably turns sexual, wanting more from her.

If you look through most of the males who said , Yes she can be friends... they leave out the word , "JUST"... and most of those males are gay [they seek couples [man and woman] and they seek the alphabet squad, for butt fucking. So of course those men can be friends with women. They don't have the heterosexual perspective.


KatieChris4fun 34M/33F  
21 posts
10/6/2019 4:17 am

Personally, I don't see why not really the only thing that really stops it in my experience is a jealous SO. but if thats the case, and they're trying to get you to ditch your friends just because they have a different thing in their pants. fuck them, kick that bitch/bastard to the curb.


the_lusty_lady 41F
2 posts
10/6/2019 11:24 am

Yes


rara1369 57M  
3 posts
10/7/2019 5:15 am

Yes absolutely can be friends without being sexually active. The majority of my friends are female some local and some from other countries. Plus not being physical takes a lot of pressure off a both parties and you can communicate without having ulterior motives. Which means lasting friendships


rara1369 57M  
3 posts
10/7/2019 5:27 am

Agreed 100% insecure people get jealous. everyone needs real friends the times you can talk to bounce ideas off of and count on when you need them. It doesn't have to be physical it just has to be real


janeyonow 39F
7 posts
10/7/2019 8:47 am

yes


LastOneDown69 38M
20 posts
10/9/2019 2:29 pm

Yes, I play in bands. With women, even if I'm attracted to them I don't cross that line.


Freakychunk 34M

10/9/2019 8:17 pm

Why not we then


mareus100 45M
106 posts
10/10/2019 6:47 am

Yes thay can.personnel experience says so.my personal belief is that is decided in the first seconds of meeting each other.what i mean is how ur relationship will be defined from that point onward.if there's a spark when u meet for the first time more often than not u will Always see that person a little more than just a friend.wether u admit it to ur self or not.u can't change that fact.it basically comes down to a chemical reaction within ur body.. Mareus


RapscallionX8 40M

10/10/2019 3:50 pm

I have platonic female friends whom I have zero desire to sleep with and vice versa. So yeah I'd say it's definitely possible.


SkinnyNinja13 27M

10/11/2019 5:28 am

They can. A lot of people fear being in the "friendzone" though.


upforsumfun79 46M
23 posts
10/11/2019 1:25 pm

Friends with benefits


CuddleMe707 63M

10/12/2019 2:55 pm

I suppose men and women can be friends although I suspect that sexual desire is never too far from the surface.


after2night 51M
153 posts
10/12/2019 4:33 pm

It just depends on the person (Some can Some can't). The same way I have Guy friends that I am not attracted to because I am not attracted to men. Is the same way I would choose female friends ( If they are Cool as friends then lets Stay friends), and If I am attracted to them and they only want to be friends then I would just decide whether I could handle it. If you can't take the heat, stay out the kitchen. I will say that I have had sex, close, or close calls with all my female friends, but we were both looking for more. I Definitely believe that I could Just be friends with a Female. I have Always enjoyed my times just talking with women.


riggs1234519 39M

10/13/2019 11:34 pm

yes i think they can


OralSlut004 70M
4 posts
10/14/2019 8:44 am

Without a need to count them, I would say that it is MUCH EASIER to be friends with someone (of either sex) if you have never become intimate.

If you have ever been intimate, and that faded, it is POSSIBLE to remain friends, BUT I "believe" that will eventually fade away to just a memory.

I have NO Scientific data for this, just life experience. Mine, and others I have observed.


Bjman0 45M

10/14/2019 3:24 pm

If there in no sexual attraction then most likely yes


IMaMagikman 38M
119 posts
10/14/2019 9:38 pm

Yes they can. Just my personal opinion. I have several female friends in which i have no desire to be sexual with them. It isnt that they are not attractive at all. Some are very very beautiful. I cant speak for how they may feel but me personally i wouldnt want to. Some say they are worried about destroying the friendship, some say because they dont think the other is interested. But the reason i wouldnt is because i happen to like having beautiful female friends without a sex factor. I like that they feel safe around me and they should. Im just not that person. Im very blunt and im not known for having a filter so being honest goes a very long way


alsac100 55M
15 posts
10/14/2019 10:59 pm

It depends some yes, some no


GhostRider01777 61M
19 posts
10/15/2019 12:44 pm

sure more friend the better gender dose not matter just that the more female friends u have u can get there view and advice and that a good thing


Paddyochair1369 46M

10/15/2019 8:38 pm

In my experiences in life it would have to be no.


BBCoF361 39M

10/15/2019 11:38 pm

Yes I think so


luvtits31000 50M
42 posts
10/16/2019 6:09 am

I have a few that I'm just friends with but several we just could be friends so now we are fwb ..its awesome


Giveitago412 65M/59F

10/16/2019 12:58 pm

I always felt women make the best friends because I can talk to them on a more personal level. I don't know why.


TucsonBoneAlone 57M
52 posts
10/16/2019 1:06 pm

I need a boner to be friend s with!


Zerosour 38M
17 posts
10/17/2019 4:48 am

Sure we can be just friends. But if I'm honest, thing is, we really listen to each other better


Curious123622 72M

10/18/2019 7:26 am

Have been friend with married women for over 8years


jogrnm87111 62M

10/18/2019 12:18 pm

Of course men and women can be friends. I have more female friends than male friends and I like it that way. Men that cannot see themselves being friends with a woman, are not worth worrying about


ahut1963 60M
17 posts
10/18/2019 12:20 pm

I don't believe they can, unless the man is gay and not interested in women sexually. Let's face it, men are dogs and as long as we are friends, there is always an underlying attraction to a woman and a desire to get her in bed.


EndlssDsyr 73M
6 posts
10/18/2019 1:13 pm

Most definitely men and women can be, and very often are, friends.

Not sure where you get the 'scientific' element of your position/blog. There's really nothing scientific about human relationships. Our complexity affords the joys and challenges of emotions, along with our confounding intellect.

My best friend in high school was a female with whom I had virtually daily contact, either in person, or hours on the phone, and it was strictly platonic. We did kiss once. One memorable kiss, that we can still joke and laugh about. But that was it. Nothing more.

It was, and is, the kind of relationship where we can, and have, gone for years without contact, and the moment we're back in touch, it's as if we just paused the conversation from the last time we spoke.

It may sound odd, or perhaps even difficult to believe, but I had far more female influences in my formative years, with a host of female relatives, including my two sisters (no brothers), and a dad who seemed to work all the time, along with my grandfathers and uncles. I attribute my history of having way more female friends than male, and preferring the company of a woman to a man (no, not just sexually) in everyday situations.


scoupe42 60M

10/18/2019 1:30 pm

Sure! if there not an attraction to each other, and they both have somebody else. I'm not making this up. I know situation like this.


Mixedmaleintown 39M
4 posts
10/19/2019 2:06 am

Can you be friends after emotions start to evolve in one of the parties?


looking4playnew 44M

10/20/2019 11:40 pm

no


tjune65542 58M
19 posts
10/21/2019 8:59 am

NICE


LOVSMALLTIS3 70M

10/21/2019 9:24 am

I AM A MALE AND HAVE HAD FEMALE FRIEND SINCE 1985 AND I HAVE NEVER HAVE TRIED TO EVEN KISS HER. PS SHE IS ALSO FRIENDS WITH MY MY AND KIDS.


halhump2 62M
22 posts
10/21/2019 10:10 am

yes no prob


havinfunagain18 34M

10/21/2019 1:58 pm

Of course they can. If there is some mutual attraction something may happen at some point though


MrPoppins2015 54M
12 posts
10/22/2019 3:56 pm

Most definitely can just be friends, I have several female friends who have come in very handy while trying to understand the minds of various girlfriends


Excited1019 44M

10/22/2019 7:12 pm

Yes they can.


Jd989812 42M

10/23/2019 4:32 am

Men and women can definitely be friends. I have several female friends that are just friends. Some in which I knew before I knew their significant other, with whom I have become friends with as well.


bbc4563 35M

10/23/2019 6:28 pm

yeah totally


gudtimez2cum 46M
14 posts
10/24/2019 5:45 am

Men and women can definitely be friends!


Financesurfer79 44M
10 posts
10/24/2019 5:48 am

9 times out of 10... no. At least for straight men and straight women. The ones who say “yes” are either the one out of ten or just lying to themselves.


Inktv 40M

10/25/2019 1:35 am

what does just friends even mean?

Is the person somehow less special just because you don't want to sleep with them?


jaqmes57 66M
186 posts
10/25/2019 1:28 pm

Through past experiences I have come to find if one of the persons is in a relationship you can be friends ..If both are single eventually feeling by one or the other grow and sex usually happens...where the mind set is after that will decide if your are to remain friends.. I am fortunate enough to have friends of both sexes


ScorpioSecret 47M
5 posts
10/25/2019 6:13 pm

Yes, I have a group female friends, and just purely friends


DiscreetLaw 44M
15 posts
10/27/2019 11:42 am

Is good to have more female frds then will understand what female thinks


jcnsc4u 44M
27 posts
10/27/2019 12:49 pm

I believe yes. All through high school and college I had many friends who were women. It seems easy to me. However I also had things where it was just guys.


Dentonfriend 57M

10/27/2019 4:38 pm

Sorry to say that in the back of their heads, men are our for just one thing with women.


vagatariun 67M
118 posts
10/28/2019 3:07 pm

I agree, women should always be treated a ladies and not some sexual conquering, most of my closest confidants are women


12frog 48M
42 posts
10/28/2019 4:21 pm

I feel they can be


sdkyle36 39M

10/29/2019 4:14 am

One secretly always wants to fuck the other


manda745 41F
18 posts
10/29/2019 6:12 am

I think only if they are not attracted to each other.


Horney195663 64M

10/29/2019 7:56 am

Nice blog, but here is the simple answer,

Gods design is flawed. Women are born with the beauty that drives a man bonkers because of his inherent sexual urges. This is power.
Some smart women realize this and flaunt it, some use it to tease.
Especially on this Fake Dating site. What if you are just a man and your dick is only 5 inches long ? Cool, huh.


virgin348 32M
14 posts
10/29/2019 11:16 pm

Sure i have female friends without having sexual feeling for them some i've known since high school.


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