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lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
7/20/2019 6:36 pm

Good Evening Young lady, I am proud to have you as one of my friends, you just makes it a nicer adult place to enjoy, have a good evening,

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
7/20/2019 6:37 pm

and it does work better as a comment!!!!!!!

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


ULIXBIG 69M
9288 posts
7/20/2019 6:38 pm

Good on you for clearly setting out YOUR rules!

Recently read a book on Albert Einstein. Cool dude!


Mikeps1988 42M
37 posts
7/20/2019 7:03 pm

Nice blog


bitchkitty2017 71F

7/20/2019 7:33 pm

excellent ! god blog and stating your preferences is not any way prudish..i have had many sexual encounters but i dont put them to blog privacy is more my thing and vanilla is my thing also with an occasional out of character for me thang! lol...good for you stick to your guns.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
7/20/2019 7:34 pm

Glad to wipe some of myself off you anytime Miss Lala. I'll even bring some wet wipes.

Thoughts from the Garden...


31yovirginsub 36M

7/20/2019 7:35 pm

I don't see why any of what you said would ever be a problem. You like what you like and there are things you don't want to do. There is nothing wrong with that. Everyone has things they aren't comfortable with.

I'm personally not interested in cyber sex either. Just seems plain boring to me. Phone sex is just goofy. But that is just my opinion. I don't mean to put anyone down that is in to that.

What do I know though? I'm just a virgin with no real experience at all.

I don't read books often. I mostly read manga/comics. And far too many to list in a post.

Thank you for the read and good day to you!


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/20/2019 7:46 pm

Well, you seem to have gotten a "load" off . . . your mind. IMO, I'm mostly vanilla, but maybe a bit of French Vanilla in the right situation.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Choco_9 42M

7/20/2019 7:56 pm

not too bad but take a cum shot to the face


Mr00Fun4U 64M

7/20/2019 7:59 pm

I don't see LaLa as a prude. I see you as a smart educated Woman that knows what she does and does not like. You are a Lady and expect to be treated as one. Only you decide if you want to go off the reservation or the proverbial dark side.

You have at least ventured enough to know what will or won't work for you. Too funny but I was with a Woman that asked if I ever tried erotic affixiation. I said I never tried it. So She proceeded to choke me out. Well I didn't tag out because I grew up fighting with my brothers and we never quit. Thankfully she knew to let go as I almost passed out. Let's just say...no thank you to erotic affixiation. I can honestly say it didn't heighten my sexual awareness.

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lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
7/20/2019 8:04 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    and it does work better as a comment!!!!!!!
Yes I see the drawback of not having the ability to edit. I do all mine in a word processor anyway, and still cant get it right.. then do a copy and paste..Maybe they will get this fixed as many see and complain about it, you can't post anything with numbers in it, they remove almost all of them, don't know why????

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


Mr00Fun4U 64M

7/20/2019 8:26 pm

Hey LaLa...yes and that would be just my luck. I liked your meme and yet was frightened like the frog.

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pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
7/20/2019 9:24 pm

I think those fall under the heading of "preferences". We all have them. Some people have more of them than others. Just a matter of finding the right person who's preferences play well with your preferences. lol Not an easy task, that's for sure.
(I think MrFun was looking for the word asphyxiation....unless she affixed something to him. )

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
7/20/2019 9:25 pm

I am a prude, too. Not ashamed of it either. Worse with age. No circus sex for me. Just some good ole fashion boinkin is fine. I don’t need or want the cum shower or the E-Coli dance.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
7/20/2019 9:26 pm

One thing that's never been on my list of things to repeat is car sex. There's no reason I can see for me to have car sex with someone too broke/cheap to get a hotel room where I can lay down on a bed or over the furniture or both and get a proper rogering. That'll never happen in a car. There's not enough thrill to make up for a lack of comfortable positioning. Guess I'm a prude too


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/20/2019 9:30 pm

Oh, you make me laugh Lala. And we have quite a few similarities, especially when it comes to semen.

I had a male pen pal from the site a long time ago and i asked him whether he cared if the woman swallowed (since it seemed like a lot of men made a big deal out of that). He said, “WTF do I care? I came, that’s all I care about. She can spit it into a paper towel and feed it to her dog for all I care.”


IVFalternative 53M
630 posts
7/20/2019 11:03 pm

I would not be a very effective IVF alternative if I did it your way

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


RyuFujin 56F  
1445 posts
7/21/2019 1:16 am

You're not a prude, LaLa. What you listed here I would think a lot of ladies would agree on.

I've known some women, best friends in my earlier years, who thought that doggie or cowgirl style was kinky! No effing way would any of them ever think about having sex in another position other than missionary, and only in the bedroom. No other place in the house.

Giving your man a BJ? Hell no! Maybe a hand job, and even that would have been a strong maybe leaning to a no. They probably said no to his oral desire of her also. Those poor attached guys... So yeah, there are and have been far worse prudish ladies out there.

What's the difference between sensual and kinky?
Sensual- you use a feather. Kinky- you use the whole chicken!


"Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
7/21/2019 4:56 am

Well... it's not new, but I'm rereading Robert Grisham's - The Firm. Great book 📙.
Yeah... I'm not into cum swallowing, gang bangs or amateur photography either. 🤔
Although, I'm all for - public sex. Hmmm... go figure. 😊


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/21/2019 6:55 am

Your porn star career opportunities are going to be SEVERELY limited.

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CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/21/2019 8:50 am

BiggLala replies on 7/21/2019 10:15 am:
I know, right!

Then again...hmmm...I do have the 'ebony BBW' thing going for me. That's seems like a porn baseline these days...being primarily fetishized and all. I bet I could start a new genre...corrupt the prude.

***

TRUE, body-wise you DO have the makings of a porn star to sure!

(Attempting to) "Corrupt the prude" is pretty much a synopsis of all my years on A*F*F.

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CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/21/2019 8:52 am

    Quoting CleavageFan4U:
    BiggLala replies on 7/21/2019 10:15 am:
    I know, right!

    Then again...hmmm...I do have the 'ebony BBW' thing going for me. That's seems like a porn baseline these days...being primarily fetishized and all. I bet I could start a new genre...corrupt the prude.

    ***

    TRUE, body-wise you DO have the makings of a porn star to sure!

    (Attempting to) "Corrupt the prude" is pretty much a synopsis of all my years on A*F*F.

    Even More Incredible
    I Dont Care How Bad it Gets, Im Never
    Is This Sharing a Bit Too Much
    [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
And speaking of "corrupting the prude" have I told you about this neat nudist resort near Depew?

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CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/21/2019 9:26 am

BiggLala replies on 7/21/2019 11:10 am:
No, you've not told me about it, but I think I know what you're talking about...maybe. I researched nudist resorts in OK a few years ago. My thought process was I was going to get outta my comfort zone and try something new.

Anyway...that might be the place I found...but...knowing you, it might not be, lol. I only say that because the one I read up on is advertised as 'family friendly' and 'adult activities' is strictly prohibited. They even had a woman sitting with her child on their website. Send me the name and I'll look it up.

********

Oaklake Trails Naturist Park 24601 Milfay Rd. Depew, OK 74028 - but even better see my post about it My Trip Down MILFay Road.

And YES, like most of the parks it is "family friendly" (no public sex).

But what I'm really saying dear (not as dense as she plays) lady is - in keeping with my efforts to corrupt the prudes" do you want to GO WITH ME? NO, we won't have sex. YES, we'll still have fun!

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August - Shorts
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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
7/21/2019 10:55 am

I think you said it very eloquently about your dislikes about when it comes to sex. It's too bad more people don't share what they dislike and like when it comes to sex. I hope you have a peaceful day hun..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
7/21/2019 12:47 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm ROTFLMAO! @ the meme.....


SexySexySophie 41F
1989 posts
7/21/2019 3:47 pm

I think vanilla sex is fantastic. Once I get to know someone then we can move on to more adventurous things. But if I’m with someone new, I don’t really enjoy anything terribly out of the ordinary.

That gangbang idea sounds hot. I have a friend who keeps telling me I should get into the dominatrix thing, because lots of guys dig it and you can get what you want—whatever that is...

You would probably need some sort of fluffer so your subjects are cleaned and ready when they come to you. Lol


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
7/21/2019 6:06 pm

Hi BiggLala,

thanks for shairng...

you always put it just the way you see it.

wanting what you want...

I like that about you...

reminded me of this one...

Lauren Christy - "I Want What I Want"

Tears, money, honey on my bread
Sugar on my pillow, songs in my head
Head to the church, I love to repent
Say what I mean when it's not what I meant
Oh I want to lay in bed on Monday
Wearing a diamond studded hat
Live a good life, a full life, do it all again
Love a man forever, who's a thousand man
I want what I want, I want it now
I feel what I feel, don't bring me down
I know what I know, I don't know how
But I want what I want, I want it now

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HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
7/22/2019 8:25 am

I wouldn't say that is prudish at all... you are talking about your limits... different discussion

you are WAY to sexy to ever be considered a prude!!!


thax013 46M
1089 posts
7/22/2019 10:04 am

Everything sounds reasonable. You are speaking about your comfort level.

Public sex, I can see a thrill, but a concern of getting caught. Still, a nice room to take time, get loud, get comfortable. Public sex seems more, spur of the moment - quickie.

Cum related. I LOVE seeing my cum on a woman. The image stays in my mind for years, exciting me every time I revisit it. The only place better is inside, but that is understandably rare. Cleaning up, of course the guy should clean it up for you, hotel towel, or licking. You let him spray you, it is only common courtesy for him to clean up his mess.

I have tasted myself, curiosity, I saw it many times in porn where women swallowed and licked it up. So I tried it, thinking, it came from me, I would like women to do it also, if I cannot, then how could I ask others to do it? Not bad, different, not really a big thing. I also have accidentally shot myself in the eye. Holy shit that stings, and sticky, and ever living hell it just does NOT go away!!! I cannot imagine anyone ever wanting that! So I try to aim away or guard the lady’s eyes.

Gangbangs ... kind of anti-intimate, not my thing. Not to mention the concern in the back of my head about diseases ... I value my cleanliness. I’d rather pass.

Photography during sex, I see that many times in profile pics, many times my wife will get those pics sent to her. I don’t get it, why show you having sex with someone else? Why interrupt sex for taking pics, or in most cases, the guy being lazy, laying down, letting the woman do the work why he holds his phone out. Come on man ... give her some effort back!

Virtual sex. All of it is nice, but not anywhere comparable to actual sex. It is just to help one or both get off until such a time as you two can meat in person.

Oh, and that anal meme. But true, if you demand, then it is only fair that it is a two way street.

Visit my blog if you want to at thax013 and thank you very much!


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
7/22/2019 9:10 pm

Interesting & timely post ! I was in a conversation lastnite. Granny (my reg FW, her 41 yr old daughter (a sometimes FWB but since she has at least 6 others I know of, not as often as I would like), two grand daughters(one of whom is not quite 18, the other 19 and is often a midnite booty call gal (she does the calling BTW) unknown to her mom or granny), AND, a 30-ish guy who is lusting so much for the 17 yr old, but swears they havnt yet, uh huh, sure they havnt!
So the topic was sex, of course, that all these 4 women ever want to talk about so it seems (the grand daughters often share the same guys), and specifically, positions came up ! 3 of the gals stated categorically that "riding" was their fave position, as of course I already knew about 2 of them (the 17 yr old is strictly off limits in my book) and the 19 yr old stated she NEVER did any riding as it hurt her knees quickly. NOW, all 4 of these gals are BBWs, 2 would easily qualify as being SSBBWs, and the other 3 all laughed at the 19yr old, since she obviously doesnt KNOW what funn riding can be. Since 2 of the 3 have ridden me many times, I know how much both they & I love that position. I also knew the 19yr old prefers rear entries, both in fact, but back to the 'riding', she stated she didnt want to hurt a guy ! Now, granny is about 220, 41 yr old is about 300, and the 19 yr old close to 300 (not sure if above or below that number yet) and the 17 yr old is likley 250+. Hurt a guy, lol ??? NO, not likely in my experience, and I informed the group that I had had at least 4 gals in excess of 400#s that not only had ridden me, but had ridden my face/tongue ! And I have never been hurt in the process! Have even been ridden by 2 at a time, for a total of 700#s plus on me, not squashing mind you just one on my tongue & the other on my cock. I did almost disappear into the bed that time, lol, but not hurt in the least ! So turns out some BBWs/SSBBWs are a bit prudish, for whatever reasons. And all the while the 30-ish guy, who was hiding his crotch from the 17 yr old who would have probably had him right there if momma & granny & me were not present, is just wide eyed and all ears, and blushing like an apple !
One of these days I hope to get all 3 gens naked in the same room for a 4sum, but I suspect it will never happen.
Now, Lala, see you are not a prude at all, you just know what you want & dont want!


scoupe42 60M

7/27/2019 12:35 pm

We like what we like, do what we do! People might not always agree with us, or like our viewing on things. They going to have there views on us, but we just be who we are!


SactoNative 58F
396 posts
7/27/2019 2:27 pm

I was all about cybering 20+ years ago in the AOL chat rooms. You still remember a/s/l?

I'm currently reading Grisham's "The Pelican Brief"; how about yourself?


Bigswigo 27M
17 posts
7/29/2019 8:02 pm

Yes good vlog


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