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Blogs > tresennui > Succumbing to Curiousity

Keep It Private  

tresennui 69F  
2841 posts
12/4/2012 5:21 pm

Last Read:
5/7/2019 7:25 pm
Keep It Private


Is it me, or does it seem like couples who find it necessary to discuss their relationships in chatrooms, blogs, facebook, etc., tend to eventually self-distruct?

I have no problem with couples showing pda, or hearing them occasionally express affection for each other. To continually write about both the physical and emotional details of their relationship makes me wonder if they are more into being together to show others that they are in a relationship - to prove to others, they are loved/liked and desired.

Enjoying and appreciating intimacy .... all aspects of it, is what makes a relationship special.
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui
Evocules 55M
1288 posts
5/2/2019 11:32 am

 That kind of writing, those types of blogs really get to me! I can't over-emphasize how hot and bothered they get me, because they seem genuine and real. The passion comes through, even if the names don't

I understand discretion though, having had an affair in the workplace where it would have been professional suicide if anyone knew. There were tense moments, like stealing a kiss in the lunch room, or flirting under the table during a meeting. My heart would race, but at the same time the thrill of it all would have my cock bulging through my trousers with anticipation!


Evocules 55M
1288 posts
4/30/2019 12:22 am

 There was an exhibitionist quality to my posts when I was blogging openly about an ongoing affair with another blogger. I admit, I did get turned on about sharing my passions. I think from a literary standpoint though, that readers appreciated getting dual perspectives and then comparing them. It made our open window policy kind of fun for others. That was my impression.


tresennui replies on 5/1/2019 10:22 pm:
When I wrote this blog I was very active in a local chat room. We not only spent hours a day online, we also socialized in person. I was involved in one way or another with many in our group and was relatively discreet. Even if I was seeing someone on a regular basis and others knew, we kept our private conversations private. There were others that seemed to take great pride in making sure everyone knew they were together. Where they were hooking up, when, etc. Inevitably, some drama would ensue between the couple.

For a great while many of my blogs often were written with someone particular in mind. Sometimes for his comments other times I wrote things or posted pics I knew would turn him on. Much of what I wrote was about experiences I had or follow up to conversations. I never mentioned anyone by name and often used the “a friend” when writing anything not very positive (I hate to say negative) about a person or experience with someone I knew who might be reading my blog, or figure out what/who I was referring to.

curiousg0123 57M  
90 posts
12/17/2012 4:12 pm

 the same confidence issues that push the publicity unfortunately also drive the self-destruction.


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